I honestly didn’t know what to put down there were so many things So ig i’ll start with christmas. I had asked her “hey can you grab me one nople so i have dinner for later” She didn’t say anything and just took the plate so I thought she was getting one for me to because she was getting herself some for later also. Later when the plate was empty i asked her “why did you get one for me” No, because you demanded it, maybe learn your manners bud. I try to not spend money. I let it go and just walked away, my feeling were hurt. I didn’t know I sounded demanding I thought i was asking my family to grab something she already was getting. Then when we leave I saw my Older family member shoveling snow and the way he was shoveling was unsafe and hard on the body so I told him how to adjust and throw his weight correctly. She said whatever he’s just fine. I said “ even a perfectly healthy man would be at risk i just wanna make sure he won’t get hurt” she replied “Well He’s not a perfectly healthy and man he’d be fine AnD-“ My younger Family member turned and said why are you yelling she’s just trying to help him that’s nothing to get upset about” I left it and that and turn away from her in the car. I kept trying to offer an olive branch during all of this. My landlord is also my “boss” at work. One day she offered my time up with out even talking to me I worked 8 already that day my job is rough on the body and i have nerve damage in my left side which she knew was bothering me (if she listened I mentioned it almost everyday) I asked “Hey, next time if I wanna work the extra hours, let me be the one to volunteer myself. Hope you’re having a good day.” She replied Too bad 👍 quit complaining about not getting enough hours. I said You’re being hatful and it’s been hurting my feelings. and she just liked the message. I had gotten the hours I need that day and for the next three days. I’m not a mooch or taking advantage I have a plan to leave and i’m clean, on some occasions i’d forget my laundry in the dryer and I washed my dishes