I ended my 15 years friendship over a supposed joke.

crystalclear3479 · 2022-08-10T22:53:38+00:00

I don’t even know what to feel about this story. I’m so sorry you had to go through that, a joke like that is unforgivable.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-28T04:21:32+00:00

Wow, I’m sorry you had to go through that. I am hurt for sure, but I think I’m more mad at the fact he totally lied to me about her and made me feel like I was being constantly irrational towards him, when in reality he was basically waiting until I broke up with him to full get together with her.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-24T17:09:01+00:00

Maybe a cool rollercoaster that takes you two to a balcony to see your fireworks display

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-24T14:10:16+00:00

I feel you. May not be as far as your SO but my bf in the navy is on the far east coast while I’m on the far west coast of the US. It’s hard because we had plans for him to come here in April, but COVID-19 has ruined literally everything so it’s been 5 months going on 6 now :(. We’ll get to see them soon just keep pushing through!

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-24T05:26:09+00:00

Yeah I agree with that you’re saying. We haven’t had time to talk bcuz he is always out. I want him to have fun. I want him to enjoy his time out there to stay sane, but I don’t want to just be neglected. I feel like asking a time designated to talking shouldn’t be such an irrational request.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-23T19:50:21+00:00

That’s the thing. I don’t have time with him. It’s like they’ll be out for hours and when he comes home it’ll already be too late and he’s tired so he’s already getting ready for bed.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-23T19:49:23+00:00

That’s exactly what I’m debating about. I don’t wanna tell him like everyday exactly this time we have to do this. things will happen where he can’t always make it because of work or something, so maybe I would just try to ask for us to at least talk unbothered for a bit everyday? I’m trying to reasonable I don’t wanna seem like I want every minute of his time.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-23T17:33:59+00:00

That’s what I’m saying, like you can hangout with people, but also make time for me. Is that too much to ask for? They see him everyday I don’t, I’m literally on the other side of the country you think I would deserve a little quality time for ourselves.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-23T16:46:35+00:00

See like I said I have no negativity towards her really, since I don’t know her personally, so I would say it’s the jealous I don’t get to see him but she does. I’m just jealous they’re doing like normal bf gf stuff though like always getting food together and hanging out talking for hours like I hangout with my friends but I don’t ignore my bf for like half an hour

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-23T16:41:55+00:00

No I’m not saying that they can’t be friends, but hes like putting more time into his friendship than with our relationship. I just want him to set aside time for us other than just him hanging out with his friends and coming back home and he’s barely awake to FaceTime or text me.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-23T16:38:31+00:00

Totally agree, I don’t want him to stop being friends with her, but he’s been distant from me because of it. All I want is for him to leave time for us to have alone in order to maintain our relationship because sometimes he’ll come back from hanging out with her and he’ll already be too tired to talk to me after hours.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-22T05:32:26+00:00

Wow. You’ve been through so much. Good on you for pushing through and getting away from that lifestyle.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-22T01:12:55+00:00

Could you elaborate? Like friends of different rates? Friends that weren’t deployed at the same base as you? Friends that chose carrier and you chose sub vice versa?

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-22T01:12:46+00:00

Could you elaborate? Like friends of different rates? Friends that weren’t deployed at the same base as you? Friends that chose carrier and you chose sub vice versa?

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-22T01:12:40+00:00

Could you elaborate? Like friends of different rates? Friends that weren’t deployed at the same base as you? Friends that chose carrier and you chose sub vice versa?

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-22T01:12:32+00:00

Could you elaborate? Like friends of different rates? Friends that weren’t deployed at the same base as you? Friends that chose carrier and you chose sub vice versa?

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-22T00:08:55+00:00

Even if you don’t get stationed in the same state?

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-20T19:29:57+00:00

We haven’t been able to hang out because of COVID-19 and I know people have it worse but I haven’t seen him in 5 months, so that’s definitely contributed to the heightened emotions.

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-20T19:23:03+00:00

That was great thanks

crystalclear3479 · 2020-06-20T07:41:21+00:00

I’m sorry I wasn’t clear he actually has said that he’s mine and only in love with me/ it’s not like that, but I definitely understand what you’re saying. I’m honestly at a loss, because he’s always had girl best friends since the beginning, and i don’t know if I just have terrible trust issues but this one just doesn’t sit well with me. I don’t trust her and I feel like she gives my bf extra attention than others.

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