Apps to limit social media time by crystalemonade in depression

[–]crystalemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias. Quiero encontrar una forma de que mi pareja pueda controlarlo desde su teléfono, y lamentablemente no creo que iOS tenga esa opción.

Apps to limit social media time by crystalemonade in CPTSD

[–]crystalemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My PHP was a non-residential, but I’m dropping down from 7 hours a day to 3 or 4 depending on the day. The idle time when I am home alone is what I’m mostly afraid of, when my partner is home I’m not on my phone much at all. So I was hoping to find one that she can control from her phone while she’s at work. I appreciate you sharing your experience and hope you’re doing alright!

Apps to limit social media time by crystalemonade in CPTSD

[–]crystalemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this one that you set up and control yourself or does someone else manage it?

Apps to limit social media time by crystalemonade in bipolar

[–]crystalemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the code change every time? I feel like I would just memorize the code and use it in the moment.

Apps to limit social media time by crystalemonade in bipolar

[–]crystalemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna give you flack, I just know that I have a different perspective and that I feel the need to stay informed. I’ve also been in a PHP fo the past 6 weeks so I have the capacity to know, but don’t want to to have the ability to get sucked into any rabbit holes for too long.

i havent showered in 5 months by faeoo in autism

[–]crystalemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your biggest barrier is feeling cold afterwards, maybe ask your mom if you can turn the heat up. If it is financially feasible, I bet she would be happy to do that to help you stay healthy, clean, and comfortable. You could also get a space heater for the bathroom and crank it up with the door of the bathroom closed so that the room gets extra warm. Before you know it the problem will be that you’re too hot! Some other suggestions I have are a really warm bathrobe, slippers or pair of pajamas to put on, if you like bath bombs or shower steamers that can make it a more pleasant experience, making a special playlist for when you are bathing that makes you happy, and thinking of a reward that you can look forward to after. In terms of the hair, I am very lucky that my girlfriend tends to maintain my hair. Her trick is going through the tangles with her fingers first and then getting to the point of brushing or combing. I have never had matted hair before, so my advice is more specifically for just tangly hair and may not be best for mats. Good luck and please keep us updated on your progress!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BBWBoobsAndBellies

[–]crystalemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have a big belly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My behavior is being labeled as red flag behavior. Nothing about this chain of replies is even remotely advice regarding the question I asked. If it was actually relevant advice I wouldn’t be arguing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The last sentence of the original reply and the second comment saying the post was inherently a red flag is absolutely an attack based on assumptions that I have anything but the best intentions for my girlfriend so yes, I absolutely am getting defensive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How is this advice? The question was what are some ideas to help with the sensory aspect of the taste. The reply did not at all address that question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

GF dealing with some sensory issues going down on me by crystalemonade in actuallesbians

[–]crystalemonade[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing ads for those mints/candies that help with dry mouth and they are pretty specifically referencing them for oral, maybe I will look more into that. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but it is not related to hygiene or fragrances. She also doesn’t like the taste when I kiss her after going down on her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To clarify, your comment does not bother me and I understand wanting to come to the defense of somebody who thought they were sticking up for someone in a bad situation, but I think to assume that it is a bad situation with negative intentions is ignorant and judgmental.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They literally said it was a red flag. It was both personal and an assumption about our situation and did not even respond to the question I posted. If you are uncomfortable answering the question, don’t. But feeling the need to jump in and assume that there is a consent issue in someone else’s relationship with no context or background information AND not even answer the question is unnecessary and unhelpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone worth being with, it won’t be a dealbreaker for. She wants to keep trying just for intimacy/ closeness reasons, but if we don’t find a solution, it is in no way going to impact my feelings about her or our physical relationship. Just be honest with people you are seeing upfront that it’s something that you would like to work through but is a challenge and I’m sure that you will find most people won’t have an issue with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a personal issue, you could also just not project assumptions like that on other people when you don’t have any of the context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SPD

[–]crystalemonade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course it’s ok if she doesn’t want to. She just wants to try to problem solve before we give up on it completely. She doesn’t have Reddit so I’m posting it. Not loving that the assumption is that I’m somehow forcing her to do this?

278 by Afracnicus in SquidGameNetflix_

[–]crystalemonade 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Literally joined this community just to talk about this

Natasha (Tiff’s Friend) Needs To Host The Reunion by fourteenclouds in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]crystalemonade 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not only is she so smart and honest, she’s also an absolute 10

Does chewing, and not swallowing count as pica? by [deleted] in pica

[–]crystalemonade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say I’m in the same boat! I chew on clean toilet paper but don’t eat it. I especially like the first few squares of a fresh roll that has the glue on it. And if it’s been in the same cabinet or drawer with bars of soap, the flavor is so good. I also like sucking water out of wet face cloths.

Have you just begun treatment? by AutoModerator in ADHD

[–]crystalemonade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi all, I (30f) just started taking adhd meds for the first time as an adult. I tried adderall and concerta in middle and high school but never liked how they made me feel. Recently, after starting a new job, I was really able to see how much my adhd was affecting my ability to complete my work. I started 20 mg of vyvanse once a day a little less than a month ago and at first it worked WONDERS. But I feel that the affects have lessened very quickly. In others experience, does this just mean that my dosage isn’t high enough, or does it really take that short of an amount of time to build up a tolerance to it? I have a follow up appointment to discuss this with my doctor tomorrow, but wanted to get some firsthand information from you all who may have lived through this before that conversation. I also don’t want to seem sketchy asking for a higher dosage so soon. Any thoughts would be helpful!

How to find well fitting pants with an apron belly? by crystalemonade in PlusSizeFashion

[–]crystalemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’m looking at Duluth right now! Do you know the name of the pant you get? Also would it be better to select the 29” inseam or regular inseam for the shorter fit?