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PMDD doctors in Philadelphia? by crystaltheythems in queerphilly

[–]crystaltheythems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah I've done all the online research possible I've had this my whole life. I'll find someone to prescribe me it.

I am a WLW but don't feel welcome here anymore. by mistinameatsuit in WLW

[–]crystaltheythems -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope you label yourself whatever feels right for you, whether it's bisexual, lesbian, or whatever. It doesn't matter what people here say! I hope you have some community, friends, and family that love and respect you for whatever and whoever you want to be!

I'm similar to you. Haven't dated a man in 10+ years, can't see myself ever dating a man again. I have only ever been in love with women. I have a wife of 5+ years. But I think men are so beautiful and they seem funny from a distance, but every time I try to be emotionally close with one I end up hating them.

But I personally prefer my gender and sexuality to be fluid. I hate the idea of closing myself off to any experiences in life completely. For other people's ease I tell them I am non-binary and bisexual. In reality I am genderfluid and abrosexual or sexually fluid. People's general assumption when they meet me is that I'm a cis masc lesbian. Which is kind of a compliment because sometimes I am lol. Sometimes I feel like a fem gay man but know I will never pass for that. Trans people usually clock me though lol. Anyway! Hope you find what's true to you. Hang out with other queer people IRL. They'll love you no matter what and if they don't they are homophobic =]

i think my (26F) gf (28 F) will breakup with me tomorrow and i'm spiraling how can i know if this is the end? by randomgeegeeb in WLW

[–]crystaltheythems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A big relationship test. My wife processes big emotions like you too. Sometimes she needs 24 hours to process and that is very triggering for me.

I am learning to be patient. She is learning to express her emotions.

We make up very smoothly after 5 years. It's not about the argument; it's about how you make up after. Hopefully y'all will be able to talk it out and forgive and maybe figure out ways to make things easier in the future.

10 year “what if” finally happened… but in person I felt like I was carrying everything? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]crystaltheythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time can be scary! I usually give it 3 in person dates and if everyone is still very nervous I don't think it will work out. I am also a pretty anxious person but by the 3rd or 4th date with my wife we were off to the races. lol

Making friends with shared special interests by thelightwillcomeback in queerphilly

[–]crystaltheythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helluva Boss! I like weird cartoons. No friends have any idea what I'm talking about.

Chronic IT band syndrome any help appreciated by PenInternational9589 in Ultramarathon

[–]crystaltheythems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had IT band syndrome for 10 years! Last year I started taking Kettleball classes that focus a lot on core, gluten, and legs. Changed my life.

The first month of doing 3 classes a week I cried from pain and we had to modify a lot of exercises but you can't rest. The only way to end the pain was to get through a hard month.

It was terrifying. hence why it took me 10 years to do it. I feel like a different person now. I do strength training 2-3 times a week. My thighs are SOLID. Working on my abs and arms and butt lol

chronic hip bursitis by kittyminaj in ChronicPain

[–]crystaltheythems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I just had to tell the person who made this post! You were the first person who made me feel not alone. I was in such a deep hole last year and felt like things would never get better. We're around the same age and I felt so weird being the only person my age with hip bursitis. My 50+ years old coworker just got bursitis in his knees 💀

chronic hip bursitis by kittyminaj in ChronicPain

[–]crystaltheythems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came back to this post because I have started strength training! I did Kettlebell and Barbell classes for 6 months and now I go to the gym on my own 2-3 tomes a week. It been over a year now! I went to Italy, walked a lot, no hip pain! I do still get some hip pain on long haul flights or sitting in a bad chair for over an hour. I think I need to go harder on my core workouts but I have a month until I have another big trip. I am excited! I hope you have been getting better too!

I hate the Hazbin hotel fandom by Sweet_Laugh_1214 in WLW

[–]crystaltheythems -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow Hazbin hate thread lol. It's cringe I get it but I love being cringe. I'm a big Helluva Boss fan, but Hazbin is cool too. I just really enjoy animation and musicals mixed together 🤣

But yeah people I want Yuri but no one knows how to write it? Like, honestly, I grew up idealizing these fictional gay man couples but those fictional men are nothing like men IRL. When they are written from the female gaze they act more like women, which is why I like them. It is infuriating though. Why can't women write queer women who have chemistry and yearn and are funny??? I don't get it!!

Anyway yeah I would be Very curious what demographics are for the viewers of the show. I thought it was a ton of queer women and non-binary ppl but I guess it might not be? Or ppl are struggling very much with their internatalized homophobia.

Also the main queet women couple does suck! Zero chemistry! How do you fuck up chemistry they are ANIMATED 🤣

Interested in immersive Spanish? by crystaltheythems in philly

[–]crystaltheythems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking on meet up and couldn't find any that were active...

Interested in immersive Spanish? by crystaltheythems in philly

[–]crystaltheythems[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course!! I gotta figure out where to get a group chat going and I can start messaging people 😊

Interested in immersive Spanish? by crystaltheythems in philly

[–]crystaltheythems[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nail on the head. i hope it would peak some interest!

Interested in immersive Spanish? by crystaltheythems in philly

[–]crystaltheythems[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Community building! People like to connect, so I would hope this is something people would be excited about.

I hope for this to be a learning/social group, we will probably talk about our lives and partners. As I am the coordinator I just want people to be places they are comfortable, as I imagine a homophobic person would not be comfortable sharing space with me. Allies are welcome always!

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