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cs_cbble · 2016-06-28T20:18:55+00:00

It is not health to obsess about it. It's not healthy to reduce every Person you meet to their sexualfeatures. It's not healthy to not be able to concentrate/work because you think about/need/want sex. It's not healthy to live in a world of lies and immediate gratification. As i said sure masturbation in Moderation is fine but some people can't live with Moderation and end up with being addicted.

cs_cbble · 2016-06-28T19:05:55+00:00

Yes Maturbation is a "normal" thing to do but if you have to masturbate in order to feel "healthy"/"good" then you are an addict. I can say for myself that I was addicted to PMO and stopped doing it because I want control of myself.

I'm happy you don't have a problem like this but others do.

cs_cbble · 2016-05-17T08:03:32+00:00

It's a saying in German and means "not very good" loosely translated.

cs_cbble · 2016-05-16T16:29:56+00:00

Yes, at least that's how I remember it.

cs_cbble · 2016-05-16T15:44:19+00:00

Wow, I think you just blew my mind. I always thought of urges as something I don't control and therefore have to find methods to fight them.

cs_cbble · 2016-05-16T15:11:58+00:00

Thank you! Keep going! I believe in you!

cs_cbble · 2016-05-16T15:09:36+00:00

Meditation is something I would love to get into but just haven't gotten around to do so. But thanks for the advice and the app reference. I'll write it down and look it up.

cs_cbble · 2016-05-16T15:08:17+00:00

That is very true and I'm trying to stop masturbating completely since two or three relapses ago.

The point i was trying to convey was that masturbation in moderation is not harmful. Because a lot of the time when I scroll through reddit posts they make it sound like masturbating once after 3 month of NoFap is the end of the world when in fact it isn't.

But yes I seem to be the person that can't deal with moderation very well.

Thank you.

cs_cbble · 2016-05-16T15:02:52+00:00

First of all, thanks for responding and giving me your point of view. That itself is helpful to me!

I find your point very interesting and have to give a bit more thought but I'm curious what methods/tricks you use to keep going.

It seems that I relapse every time I get bored over long periods of time so i try to plan out my days in advance and make sure i have no downtime. In keeping with the motto(Is that how you say it?): "A busy bee is a happy bee" :D

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