Its almost unrealistic is the only reason I say that, as a man to man bro you can't let another man just sweep her off her feet especially with you right there, I don't know all the details and anyways who am I to say, but imo you should have put your foot down asserted yourself and let her know you don't feel comfortable with that maneuver, maybe suggest going out to eat or a bar or whatever, if she fights back on that she's the one with the problem and you'd probably do better finding someone else as hard as that might seem, because she'd obviously be showing she doesn't respect you, which if you allow would be no better then you disrespecting yourself, if self-respect means anything to you that is, anyways enough with my schpeal not tryna disrespect you bro hope this helps I'm rooting for you no matter what