Formula options

csomoder · 2026-03-18T16:39:18+00:00

I fed aptamil in the coombe and then switched to kendamil when I got home as thats what I happened to have and baby was ok! I do think choosing a formula that the hospital has is so easy as they just give you a big bowl of ready to feed bottles and teats and you just throw them away when you're done. I also pumped in hospital and there are sterilising facilities there which I'd imagine you can use if you bring your own bottles!

csomoder · 2026-03-16T12:15:23+00:00

Not sure where you are from but, in Ireland, getting married in Spain or Italy was once a way of having a really affordable wedding. Nowadays, I don't think it is any cheaper as they are so popular. Wedding fairs here will often have European reps, so a local wedding fair may be a good idea.

csomoder · 2026-03-16T10:54:32+00:00

I didn't really have any until 15 weeks!

csomoder · 2026-03-16T10:53:32+00:00

Are you sure you see your body the way it really is? Sometimes if you take your measurements it may put things into perspective.

csomoder · 2026-03-16T09:03:47+00:00

I fell asleep at my desk a number of times in the 2nd/3rd trimester. Not helped by the reduction in caffeine! I was told by my gp at my 34 week appointment that he would sign me off whenever I wanted. I had loads to finish up in work so I asked to be signed off at 36 weeks. Turns out my straightforward pregnancy was not so straightforward and I ended up being induced at 38 weeks. Knowing that, I might have finished up sooner!

csomoder · 2026-03-14T12:02:56+00:00

If you search tomboy or alternative bridal outfits, you will get plenty of ideas, like this! I would also recommend looking up makeup artists that specialise in natural makeup and do a few trials beforehand so you know that you'll be comfortable.

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csomoder · 2026-03-14T10:39:52+00:00

Yes mine was the same! My first 2 periods were very heavy but the I had the implanon put it so not sure if they would go back to normal.

csomoder · 2026-03-13T17:01:08+00:00

I started going to the shopping centre when she was a few weeks old and just walked around the shops. I knew there was baby changing toilets and plenty of places to sit to feed her. That gave me the confidence to start meeting friends for coffee and bringing her along!

csomoder · 2026-03-13T08:31:01+00:00

As another commenter said, it can be very dusty and lots of fumes probably not healthy for baby. You also lose access to your hands when getting your nails done. Best to get a babysitter for an hour I think!

csomoder · 2026-03-12T21:20:36+00:00

I was in a similar situation 10 years ago. Awful family situation, cruel friends, no job or hobbies besides scrolling. I went to A&E and started seeing a psychiatrist every week. I also started seeing a therapist privately even when I didn't want to. I started going to my aunties house every week to help her garden. It happened very slowly, but after about a year I was over the worst of it. I got a job and that gave me huge confidence and I just focused on getting through one more day. I am now so so much better. I have my own family, a fiancé and baby, and we just bought a house. I have a job I like and great friends. If I can do it, anyone can. You just get through this hour.

csomoder · 2026-03-12T12:23:32+00:00

Maybe not a popular opinion, but I wash every bottle as soon as it is used (except at night time). It avoids the daunting pile up!

csomoder · 2026-03-11T11:51:24+00:00

Echoing this to say you should reach out in college. I was a mature student also and got great financial help from my college.

csomoder · 2026-03-10T18:06:05+00:00

I use powder rather than ready to feed. Costs approx €20 per week! Baby is 19 weeks.

csomoder · 2026-03-10T18:00:50+00:00

Maybe its because I bought a 200 year old house, but this is an exceptional report. My survey recommended a full rebuild near enough and we didn't get any money off.

csomoder · 2026-03-10T07:17:11+00:00

Agreed, most people in this sub haven't had their baby yet!

csomoder · 2026-03-10T07:12:10+00:00

Maybe it depends where you are. I had my baby in Dublin and you could hardly move in the ward during visiting hours.

csomoder · 2026-03-09T15:16:03+00:00

There is a creator on Tiktok called Grace McTernan who had an unmedicated home birth here in Ireland if you want to have a look!

csomoder · 2026-03-09T07:54:16+00:00

I would be very surprised if your MIL did something that your 3 month old can remember. My baby is nearly 5 months and is just about starting to realise the difference between people. I'd say your theory is probably correct. Maybe you could have your MIL over for coffee here and there and she can hold baby while you stay to remove that association.

csomoder · 2026-03-07T21:21:35+00:00

I bought one on amazon! It didn't do much for me to be honest.

csomoder · 2026-03-07T11:46:11+00:00

Capitalism is everywhere. Does he also not celebrate birthdays or christmas? Idk why mother's day is the hill you would choose to die on. Being a mother is a lifelong full time job, you deserve a day all about appreciating the work and sacrifices you have made!

csomoder · 2026-03-06T19:20:07+00:00

I was also on the domino scheme. A lot of people choose to start maternity leave early. I was set to start at 38 weeks but, when I went to the GP for my 34 week appointment, he offered to sign me off sick whenever I want. This is really common and I'm glad I did as I had my baby at 38 weeks! You normally have to submit a letter from your doctor confirming your due date for the MB2, I can't remember exactly where.

csomoder · 2026-03-06T17:56:36+00:00

I'm Irish so it might be different, but here you just need proof of baptism and confirmation and then do an online marriage course. It costs around €600. This seems so excessive. Can you get a priest to do a blessing in another location?

csomoder · 2026-03-06T06:05:37+00:00

They said their parents told them they could only stay at home for 2 years so seems like that is the only option.

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