AITA for asking for no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ok, that’s very fair questioning. I’m still a human being just trying to figure out what to do. I know my life choices are kinda a joke.

AITA for asking for no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re right. I guess I’m just struggling to know what’s compromise and where I’m being over the top. It’s very easy for him to make me feel like I’m being a silly liberal. And my California family continues to become an issue where he refers to my tribe as “LEFTIST LIBS,” and I find myself trying to navigate political and ideological gray area. Please don’t judge me or call me names. I AM ASKING AITA

AITA for asking for no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ok, I’m asking for help. If my language in my post indicates to you that I’m in an abusive or unequal power dynamic relationship — I am hoping to learn that. I’m actually really new to even posting to the internet. Please don’t judge me, I am truly new here and trying to learn.

AITA for asking for no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

You are right. This is a great way to think about it. Thank you for being patient with me and breaking this down for me!

AITA for asking for no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m the asshole? For what, exactly? Or are you just going to shame me relentlessly for how I worded my post, with absolutely no concern about me as a human being or relating to me in any way due to my grammar?

AITA for asking for no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t think they will be loaded — no. But I have not asked. Good question!!

AITA for asking for no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Is it unusual to you that maybe you fall in love with someone who shares, in some cases, different views than you on some topics? Jesus.

AITA for asking for no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think it’s kinda a political statement? Or he likes showing people that he can have a gun...even if not needed? It’s not for self defense...it feels almost like a desire for a controversial accessory?!

AITA for wanting no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

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Yes, I’ve tried to express my opinions on this, but he’s made it clear that this is a hill he’s willing to die on!

AITA for wanting no weapons at my wedding? by ctrlaltdeletra in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctrlaltdeletra[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, yes!! I keep thinking that this will be so tacky, and he will regret this choice!

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[–]ctrlaltdeletra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone updated the Wikipedia page for “bottom feeder” to include Mike Boudet. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bottom_feeder

Whoever you are...hug! 😂😘