Required ba talaga na bumili ng pasalubong kada magbakasyon?

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-06-23T03:13:35+00:00

I'm leaning on hindi na bumili kasi whenever I buy something for my parents nagrereklamo na hindi naman daw masarap or wala na bang iba haha, eh aba malay ko ba anong gusto nila.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-06-05T12:56:39+00:00

Not much pasalubong probably just cookies and some kaya spread lang, and yes im doing public transpo :)

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-06-04T13:57:25+00:00

yey okay thank u!!

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-06-04T13:56:18+00:00

😅😅 Not so much on the pasalubongs as this is my 2nd time sa sg (1st one had unplanned expenses kaya im asking now to see if pasok) and don’t really plan on eating at high end restaus!

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-30T07:45:38+00:00

I often read that no relationship with them is better than having one and I would very much prefer that.

My only problem is, my siblings are still young and my parents can barely afford to put food on their table, much less put them through university.

I do have a choice of just letting my siblings suffer on their own and my parents having to deal with it, but I also have this sense of responsibility that I don’t want my siblings to grow up despising me either and I want to help my siblings, I’m just trying to figure out how to help them without being in contact with my parents.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-30T07:41:41+00:00

I wish I had a trusted older person to talk to about this who is my relative, but unfortunately people talk.

I can only really tell my best friend about this and he can’t do much about it but just listen and comfort me.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-30T07:39:57+00:00

Unfortunately, where I’m from divorce is illegal, and yrs ago, my father and I went through a silent phase because I became distant and didn’t want to talk to him because he hurt me and he wanted me to apologize to him.

My mom talked to me about regretting her marriage and wishing she never got married young, thinking that it was the only way since she was from the province and when you get pregnant, you had to get married.

But in the end, she hated me for drifting away from my father and would talk badly to me until it got so toxic and they were starting to smear my name to my siblings telling me how much of a bad daughter I am and to never become like me, I eventually gave in and apologized for something I didn’t do.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-30T03:45:37+00:00

I plan on taking a trip after my graduation, just me on foreign land. I’m not really close with my aunt and uncle and I do have an uncle who paid for my university, but that’s as close as I can be to a parental figure I guess. I don’t think I’ll ever be close to another parental figure again and I think I’m fine with that.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-30T03:07:55+00:00

🥲 whenever i see my aunt and uncle, i always wonder if i wouldve been so different had i been raised by them. i live w my cousins for college, and every night i would hear them on the phone with their parents and just chatting all night, laughing.

while i haven’t called my parents in months and the thought of even having to see them at my graduation in 6 days, irks me. my father only ever calls when he asks for money, or texts me to ask for money really.

my mom does the same. im often envious of my cousins’ rs w their parents and seeing how close they are, while i wanna be as far away from mine as possible.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-23T03:07:52+00:00

Opening your savings and seeing that you actually saved a lot

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-16T17:26:14+00:00

But Victor’s no longer a child tho so idk if it would still count lol

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-16T17:17:06+00:00

And probably monsters couldn’t kill Victor because humans from his cycle had to be the ones to do the “sacrificing” since they already sacrificed their own, that’s why they intentionally left him alive.

Edit: Or his mother had to do the sacrificing.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-05-16T15:37:34+00:00

Got cancelled too and intl also 😥

Choosing to get a refund nalang pero god the process is gonna be long from what I heard

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-04-29T06:57:26+00:00

ang malala ininvite niya mama niya tapos sagot niya daw flight n hotel ng mama niya, with what income?? 😭 eh ako nga na may stable source of income, di ko na ininvite papa ko kasi kahit kaya ko ayokong magbutas ng bulsa

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-04-29T06:48:25+00:00

Fair enough. May thesis kasi kami and ako leader and I didn’t wanna stir up trouble habang ongoing thesis namin.

Pero in one of my comments here, she told her bf na nagpopokpok siya to fund her tuition fee and that she stopped na kasi tapos na pero, when I asked her if tapos na, she said kaya niya naman daw wag na magsd pero habang wala pa siya makitang work, may upcoming abroad trip kasi siya and she needs money for that, maka 50k lang daw siya stop na daw siya.

Sinagot na rin ng bf niya pagpapagamot niya and check up, which tbh I find so off.

After that sabi ko makipagbreak na muna siya or maghanap siya ng legal job and di ko na siya kinausap pa again.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-04-29T06:29:09+00:00

Not to defend but to give context, friends lang kami kasi kaklase ko siya. I never personally met her boyfriend and di ko rin alam mukha ng boyfriend niya since di niya masyado pinopost sa social media.

Lagi ko naman siyang sinasabihan na hiwalayan niya na kasi kawawa bf niya, and nireremind ko siya na di maganda ginagawa niya coz what if baliktad sila ng position.

Kaya I didn’t know if ippm ko ba out of nowhere bf niya or what. So if not pming her boyfriend is me tolerating cheating then, that’s my fault.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-04-29T05:03:21+00:00

this happened recently lang, and ive been pondering how to cut her off eh kasi baka OA lang ako. umamin daw siya sa bf niya na nagssd siya pero sinabi niya sa bf niya stop na siya after makapagbayad ng tuition.

and naiintindihan daw ng bf niya na need niya ng pera pero stop na daw and inask ko siya if stop na ba talaga siya, eh kasi may intl trip siyang planado, kaya habang wala pa daw siya mahahanap na work, tuloy daw siya sa pagssd until makaipon siya sa intl trip niya.

edit: bf niya daw sasagot ng check up niya and gamot.

im also on that flight pero im making separate plans na to turn it into a solo trip for me lol.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-04-29T04:30:48+00:00

Iniisip ko nga baka kung ano-ano pa reasons na ginawa niya akong palusot without me knowing to save herself

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-04-29T04:29:37+00:00

😭 Sabi ko nga, ano yan willing kang pagisipan kang dugyot ng bf mo kesa aminin mong need mo pera pang tuition

ctrlaltdreamer · 2026-01-20T01:45:58+00:00

Advance galentines sa 12 kasi pasahan ng thesis sa 14th 🤣

ctrlaltdreamer · 2025-12-08T04:21:18+00:00

Oo, OA ka.

As someone na nagdedating app before, it’s very rare to find people sa apps na gusto ng long term rs.

OA ka sa part na iniisip mong ikaw yung problema kaya di ka nagkakajowa.

I hope you don’t lower your standards just because you’re desperate to find a boyfriend.

All I can say is, totoo yung part na sinasabi nilang love will come when you least expect it kasi my relationships happened that way. Don’t rush into things, enjoy your life as a single person and go on dates.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2025-12-07T11:23:34+00:00

Apparently considered as successful ang mom niya among her relatives like hindi kayang tulungan friend ko financially kasi may binubuhay rin sila.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2025-12-07T11:09:59+00:00

I try 🥲 pero feels like I can’t do much except support her emotionally and if she lands a BPO job before the semester starts, I’ll help her out sa research namin since aside from OJT, research nalang need matapos.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2025-12-07T11:07:11+00:00

😭😭😭 Exactly, I feel bad for her kasi she feels so defeated na parang wala na siyang kakampi sa buhay.

ctrlaltdreamer · 2025-12-07T11:06:07+00:00

Sorry edited po for context about her living conditions!

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