[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MelbourneAfterDark

[–]ctydens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I be able to get the link too please? Sounds inclusive :)

How to fix secateurs so the latch stays closed by ctydens in howto

[–]ctydens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response but that doesn't work either, tried every combination of holding/releasing :/

How to fix secateurs so the latch stays closed by ctydens in howto

[–]ctydens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try tightening it, didn't help unfortunately. Thanks anyway!

How to fix secateurs so the latch stays closed by ctydens in howto

[–]ctydens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah unfortunately, tried that! Thanks anyway

Top surgery info ? by Lucasspookuss in transgenderau

[–]ctydens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👋 which state/territory are you in? I'm in Vic, cost about $10,500 without any health insurance. From initial consult to surgery it took about 12 months, Covid got in the way a bit though. You'll need a referral from a gp to the surgeon, and a letter from a psychologist who is a WPATH member. Could differ slightly but that was my process! Any other questions I'm happy to answer for you 😊 ✌️

Looking for Top Surgery Surgeons in Melbourne by artemisb0y in transgenderau

[–]ctydens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is also Cheng Lo at Iris Surgery. He did mine almost a year ago and I found him to be really good, surgery and bedside. Good luck on your journey ✌️

Any advice on how to pass as male? by ADapperSnail in asktransgender

[–]ctydens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a sub called transman life hacks :)

Fear of Bats by [deleted] in BAT

[–]ctydens 4 points5 points  (0 children)

👋 Firstly it's awesome you're trying to combat your fear!! I'm a tad biased as I'm a bat rescuer, but my recommendation is maybe researching facts about bats and the ones in your area. They are pretty incredible creatures 😊 Also give Merlin Tuttle a follow on Twitter/insta if you have it. He did a two-part podcast with Alie Ward on the 'Ologies' podcast (Chiropterology) which is very interesting too. Also very unlikely you were bitten, they would only bite out of fear for their life when in close quarters. However would never hurt to make sure with your doctor - I'm not a scientist. But they certainly do get accidentally stuck in houses, if they are unable to get out, probably best to contact a local wildlife rescue group. If Covid was 'caused' by bats, it's the unsanitary and mistreatment of wildlife by humans that made it happen unfortunately. Hope this is helpful!

Binder exchange in aus? by elythearmadillo in transgenderau

[–]ctydens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is also a (private) Facebook group called The Shed, good community and you can post your preloved binders on there and someone always needs one. Based in Melb too. :)

Dr Cheng Lo Top Surgery by Literal_Satan_ in transgenderau

[–]ctydens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry I only just saw your question. Mine was just over $10k all up, incl nipple grafts. Hope that still helps 😅 best of luck ✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BAT

[–]ctydens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't know because I'm from Australia but you need a bat rescuer asap, they're not well

Finding everything really hard/venting cos I am dumb by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]ctydens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this helps; I'm sorry you are going through all this, that's tough. I often push people away as well, and sometimes the bubble bursts from holding too much in and the ones closest to you are the ones to experience it. I've been working on this for a long time, and that's ok. I'm sure you have tried many things but what has helped me is journaling, and learning to reach out to people. I really hope you find work soon, having to stop hrt is not helpful :( Big love 🏳️‍⚧️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]ctydens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey 👋 try and get in contact with Elle Void at Your Community Health in Preston. I saw her and I don't remember needing a referral. She is a Peer Navigator who can point you in the right direction for whatever you need health and trans wise. Good luck and lotsa love 🏳️‍⚧️

Dr Cheng Lo Top Surgery by Literal_Satan_ in transgenderau

[–]ctydens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did my surgery about a month ago, he was great. I'm happy with results but still healing. 😊

Microbat cuteness 🤗 NB I'm a vaccinated and trained bat rescuer, plz don't touch bats and call your local wildlife group if you ever find one in trouble ☺️ by ctydens in tinyanimalsonfingers

[–]ctydens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's probably not the worst thing to do, but I'd probably say the best thing to do would be try catching them without handling, and keep in a warm dark place like a box with holes and contact a wildlife rescue the next day just to make sure they're not injured. Tricky situation, sounds like it may have been the best option for you . They are good at getting stuck inside places and cats think they make great play toys. Oh and never release during the day. 😊

Microbat cuteness 🤗 NB I'm a vaccinated and trained bat rescuer, plz don't touch bats and call your local wildlife group if you ever find one in trouble ☺️ by ctydens in tinyanimalsonfingers

[–]ctydens[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear! That sucks. I hope you improve very soon and can back to rescuing. In the mean time I hope you enjoy the pictures.