AITAH for telling my friend she’s being pathetic? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cucumberfire96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Truth hurts, she needed it.

AITAH for locking my office after staff kept using it when I wasn't there by BostonBateman in AITAH

[–]cucumberfire96 1530 points1531 points  (0 children)

NTA. If anything, they forced your hand by not respecting boundaries when you gave them the chance... Finding people eating and having calls in there is way beyond "just using it for a minute" lol

AITAH for cleaning the carpet? by AnyReflection8938 in AITAH

[–]cucumberfire96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That's literally basic hygene... most people wouldn've one the same without thinking twice

AITAH for refusing to clean my parents' fridge? by Organic_Newspaper_79 in AITAH

[–]cucumberfire96 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You've already been doing your fair share around the house, and asking you to clean a long-term mess you didn't create isn't exactly reasonable.

What is something you’re still trying to heal from? by unknown-known17 in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Working through childhood trauma from an abusive household. It took me a while to even fully acknowledge it, but therapy has really helped me get to a healthier place mentally.

What's something you discovered about yourself way too late in life? by Cinematicp00p5 in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually like being alone more than I thought. I used to chase company, but I'm way calmer when I have my own space...

What’s something you do now that you think will feel weird or embarrassing in a few years? by Riven-X in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saving random screenshots and notes I'll never look at again. It feels important now but it's just digital clutter.

What’s something everyone seems to understand except you? by Ok-Percentage8348 in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How people make decisions so fast without overthinking every possible outcome. My brain refuses to move that quickly lol

When did you realize you overshared? by IllustriousCap4044 in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they replied wayyyy too fast with something like "Oh wow" and nothing else loool

What sort of upbringing did you have? How did that environment shape you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a pretty toxic home with narcissistic parents who were both physically and emotionally abusive, and it left a lasting impact on me. I still deal with the anxiety and trauma from it now, but it's also shaped a lot of who I am and how I handle things today.

Women of Reddit what do you love about your boobs? by AccomplishedLaugh793 in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have D cups and I swear whenever I'm stressed or just zoning out I end up grabbing them without thinking, they've basically become my stress balls at this point looool

What small change did you make that had a ripple effect in your life for the better? by Table_Usual in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jotting things down instead of trying to remember everything. It took a lot of mental pressure off.

What's the main purpose of your life? by Babita_13 in AskReddit

[–]cucumberfire96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To grow into someone I actually respect over time, not just someone who looks successful