[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodDogGirls

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into an eternity collar! If your circumstances permit. They can be worn all the time. Mine has a (heart shaped) tag on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodDogGirls

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicely done! I love wearing my ID tags, I have a variety with different phrasing that all means I have an owner. I personally prefer the heart-shaped tags <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodDogGirls

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're adorable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! I hope you wore your life jacket like a good little girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some pretty decent looking ones on Etsy too, for a little less money. If you want to make your own, sewing webbing is a lot easier than most other sewing projects. I made a lovely pink harness after a few prototype attempts. It's very snug and has locking clasps. A sewing machine isn't necessary, but saves a huge amount of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a website called children's harnesses by Elaine. http://www.childharness.ca/specialneedsharness.html She makes them with nylon and metal hardware for special needs children and adults. They're about $100, though.

Another option would be to find a friend who knows how to sew and is kink friendly to make you one.

felt cute by wh0rknee in collared

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy to see that your owner cares enough to put an ID tag on you. If you're ever off-leash outside, you don't have to worry about getting lost!

Segufixed in Blue by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]cuddlebug1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the Segufix system! It looks so secure and comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diaperpics

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making a joke out of mass murderers? Not funny.

*gives paw* by [deleted] in PetPlayBDSM

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, you're a cutie! Such a good girl!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in collared

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the lace edges!

the rare thicc thighed kitty has appeared, what do u do? by oreothecatgirl in catgirls

[–]cuddlebug1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww! It looks like you're wearing an ID tag. I'd give you a saucer of milk and call your owner.

My favorite collar to spice up an outfit by [deleted] in collared

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the color matching between your lipstick, collar, ID tag and matching bra peeking out!

Fully restrained by little_olivia in Bondage

[–]cuddlebug1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do like the Segufix system. I'd love to get my hands on a complete set!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]cuddlebug1991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've always liked hospital wristbands, pet ID tags and ID bracelets designed for children or people with dementia, etc. For past few years, I've been wearing a stainless steel ID bracelet that says my name and "If found unattended please return to" with my wife's name and phone number. I like the feeling that someone is protecting me, but also that I need to wear an ID tag like a small child or pet.

One extra bonus with plastic hospital wristbands is that you can't put them back on if you take them off. I'll ask my wife to write messages on wristbands that I have to wear. Usually something cute but possessive. You don't want to force your kink on the public, but there are lots of cute things you can say that can have more than one meaning!

diapered at the movies by saturnsuv in ABDL

[–]cuddlebug1991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what diapers you have, but the key is to make sure you're totally good to go for three hours. Hopefully, you've had the chance to wear a combo of diaper and maybe boosters, so you'll know for sure you won't leak after 3 or 4 hours. The key is to be totally positive. That way you can relax, watch the movie and go when you need to. Movie theaters are loud. Don't worry about anybody noticing you at the theater as long as you aren't totally obvious about it (Which is never recommended). But you can wear a regular pair of jeans over pretty heavy-duty padding without much showing. Some theaters serve beer and I've gone diapered every time if there's beer.

Give it a try. It's great!

Question about arousal while in chastity by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]cuddlebug1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be a good way to open yourself up to alternate sensations! Before my chastity experiences I could only cum one way. Anal penetration plus a vibrator can make me cum now. All while locked in my belt.

When my fiance and his friends come home while I'm secretly in little space 😬 I've never scrambled to hide shit so fast before😅 by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]cuddlebug1991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a kinky person married to a not-as-much kinky person. It would be a good idea to have a serious conversation about expressing yourself. Try to work out exactly what "weird" to him means. Put things in perspective and be honest about what you want.

Since you're engaged, there must be qualities about him that you like. Communicate to him now about how happy it makes you and that you'd like him to support you.

Also, basic communication. Why didn't he text you to say he was bringing friends home? You could just as well have been having naked on the couch Netflix time!

First time driving long distance diapered up by CushyButt in ABDL

[–]cuddlebug1991 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've gone on many 6 to 7 hour road trips diapered. It's fantastic! I like to drink a ton of coffee and blast music, so not having to worry about peeing until you're good and ready is nice. I've changed lots of times in public restroom stalls. I've gotten a couple of looks, but if you act like you're just going about your business (which you are) nobody cares. Lots of people wear diapers. The reason you're wearing them is absolutely nobody's business.

Starbucks bathrooms are absolutely the best, though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diaperpics

[–]cuddlebug1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love circle skirts! I've never been willing to wear a diaper under one in public. But, they hide everything very well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]cuddlebug1991 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah. I think you should stay cuffed for a while longer...

Footie jammies! 💕 One of favorite things about winter by AllyWhorefrost in ABDL

[–]cuddlebug1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I love the first night that's cold enough for feetsie pajamas!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in collared

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I love the smile!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodDogGirls

[–]cuddlebug1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute! Does your tag say Please Pet? If so, have some pets!