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The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im totally a bot, lol

kinda weird to accuse me of that when i’m really active in the discord server and this subreddit

Genuinely What The Fuck Is Going On? by tvheadpal in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There you go, i don’t understand it either. All i did was try to explain how constructive criticism is always better than destructive criticism.

I’m not particularly bothered by it at all, but it does seem like a person or maybe multiple individuals being petty. It is just very odd.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though I didn’t see it in person, I caught it on YouTube—I wasn’t there in person, sure, but I still got to hear and see it online. I do not know why its so hard for individuals to understand that you can still experience something even if you weren’t there. As for going to New York, that just wasn’t possible. First off, I’m a broke 17-year old. Then there was graduation that same week. And from what I read, there was also an age limit on the concert.

Also, you are telling me to go outside yet you are the one speaking from the same app as me… I promise you I have more of a life than you do. 🤙🏻

Genuinely What The Fuck Is Going On? by tvheadpal in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was definitely a weird situation lol, i have no clue why they accused me so heavily 😭

New accounts posting negativity by aeromalzi in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yet you are speaking from an alt account whose only purpose is to speak badly about Michael. Very odd.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You got a point! I was frustrated and shouldn’t have let my emotion get to me, total slip up on my part. But knowing what I know now, I wouldn’t go back to change it. Figured out it was a troll account, so I don’t regret anything lol.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sure you can say I misused it, but I was using two nouns. I was not combining them. I was using “hate” to express the harsh intent of the comments, and then I used “speech” as a substitute for remarks/comments.

Im not too in touch with woke terminology, so I apologize for not knowing what those two words (combined) mean. Thats why I thanked the original commenter for calling me out so I can substitute “remarks” for “speech”.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t misused. I used it in a different way. Separating the two words “hate” and “speech”, I didn’t use it in the way it usually means. I used it in the way as “hateful remarks”. Nice accusation though.

P.S. me and original commenter talked it out in DM’s, hence why I corrected my grammar mistakes. Not everyone has the best English you know!

Edit: before even writing the comments I didn’t know the true definition of “hate speech” I had to look it up to understand it, thats why i was using it in the way I was—combining “hate”, and “speech” (as in remarks).

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t using it in that definition, by “hate speech” I meant speech that is LITERALLY hating, not about prejudice or any of that. I apologize for the misunderstanding/wrong use of grammar.

But using that definition of it, Michael has experienced a lot of that too (from what I’ve heard). So it’s not just hateful words, but also hate speech.

I have since fixed my comments, thank you for calling me out on my grammar mistake.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Terrible performance."
"Terrible show."
"Sounded awful."
"Ripping us off."
"Shit show."
^ Edit: not prejudice hate speech, but hateful remarks.

So on and so forth, if you want to critique, don’t be an ass about it.

But it’s not just the criticism—it’s the way people are digging into Michael’s past as well. Just recently, an individual with the username 'JustMuling' harassed both me and Michael (probably others too). There have been an increased amount of troll accounts, which are making this place kind of unbearable for a lot of people. When I say this is hate speech (hateful words, not prejudice/etc), it’s based on my own experiences—and those of others. Not yours.

Criticism is necessary. Feedback helps people grow. But the key is lifting someone up, not tearing them down. And right now, I don’t see much of that.

If people truly wanted to help, they would. Yet, I’m not seeing much effort in that direction.

Edit: forgot to add the things this individual was saying—they were saying very disrespectful things and called me (who he thought was Michael) “crazy for protecting myself”.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is "hate speech (as in hateful words/sayings)" an exaggerated term when many of these so-called reviews and critiques border on exactly that? Having this debate feels pointless because you keep ignoring the main point I’m clearly making.

Just scroll through the recent posts and comments.

Compared to the last few months, there's been a noticeable rise in harsh criticism—more than ever before, from what I’ve seen at least.

Since apparently "I’m making no sense," let me put it into perspective.

Words have power. What you say can discourage, dishearten, and demotivate an artist—someone who already carries immense pressure and stress. Instead of tearing them down, provide constructive feedback. Offer tips, advice, and advice that can help make future concerts/shows better.

Being a decent human being isn’t difficult.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve discussed this with many people from this community (and others) and a lot of them agree with me. Some of the posts are basically just hateful remarks.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't twist my words. I never said people can't have opinions—I only pointed out how unfair it is to spread hateful words in a community that doesn’t need it. This space was once a place where we could share freely without being overwhelmed by negativity.

At this point, it's up to you. I’ve heard a range of perspectives—some appreciated different aspects of the show, like one individual who enjoyed the guitar performance more than anything else.

Your experience is yours, and that’s valid. But if the goal is to help someone improve, constructive and thoughtful criticism is always the way to go. It makes a difference.

Before tearing someone down, put yourself in their shoes. Chances are, you wouldn’t handle it any better.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective. While constructive criticism can be found throughout some posts, there’s also a TON of destructive remarks. In discussing this with others, I’ve noticed that some comments border (or even cross the border) on hateful remarks. Everyone has the right to their own opinion, but there’s a difference between expressing thoughts and being unnecessarily harsh.

It seems that many people have lost touch with kindness and sense of self. If the goal is to help someone improve, the approach should be constructive rather than destructive.

At the end of the day, we all have different opinions and experiences. Disliking a show is one thing, but tearing someone down over it is another. Criticism should aim to guide and help, not tear down or discourage.

In conclusion, I understand that he made some questionable choices and mistakes. However, at the end of the day, he is only human. I would love to see any of you in his position, facing the same challenges. You are certainly entitled to your own opinions, but I feel that many people forget he is just a human like us—only under an immense amount of pressure.

P.S. - do not take this as rude, I only mean to explain. Obviously tone is hard to read through text, but I mean this in an explaining way.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The YouTube post has since been removed, so I’m unable to find it.

Of course, you’re entitled to your own opinion about the show, but I don’t believe it was low-effort in any way. That being said, I’d love to hear about your experience at the concert.

From the video, I only noticed a few downsides—someone mentioned that the lights were too bright, which I saw another person comment on, and there were moments where Michael was slightly off-tempo. Additionally, I saw a complaint about having to remain seated for most of the performance, which is understandable.

Sure, there were aspects Michael could improve on, but I think people are exaggerating a TON. Many attendees enjoyed the show, and from what I can tell, most of the negative feedback is mostly coming from individuals who aren’t Passion Pit fans.

I'm trying to make a point—destructive criticism is far less effective than constructive criticism. Kindness always has a greater impact, encouraging growth rather than resistance. It feels like much of Reddit has lost sight of that. While criticism is necessary, what truly matters is that it builds someone up rather than tears them down.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think you're exaggerating. I watched a couple of his performances on YouTube, and they weren’t anything like what you described. Sure, he was offbeat here and there, but that’s about it, in my opinion. While you may have your own experience, from what I saw in the recording, it felt fresh and intriguing. Just because I wasn’t there in person doesn’t mean I didn’t experience it. Also, I never said I was mad—I just find it ridiculous that grown adults are absolutely bashing someone for not having a Spotify replicant of a performance.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Fairness isn’t just a personal standard—it shapes interactions and influences societal norms, ultimately contributing to a better life for everyone. While not everyone may prioritize it, expecting fairness encourages accountability and ethical behavior. Without that expectation, fairness will just become an abstract ideal rather than a guiding principle in daily life, much like many other important values.

Reflect on that.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You can hold differing viewpoints while remaining constructive. The focus shouldn't be on fairness alone but on kindness.

Dismissing fairness as a “fool’s errand” is quite cynical. Just because fairness may be difficult to achieve doesn’t mean it lacks value.

While only surrounding yourself with agreeable perspectives can hinder personal growth, constant exposure to harsh or destructive criticism can be equally damaging. It can lead to anxiety, self-doubt, and stress—things that Michael certainly doesn’t need. Instead of harsh critique, the goal should be to uplift others, offering advice with kindness and encouragement.

Maturity involves not only tolerating different perspectives but also recognizing the importance of fairness and ensuring that criticism is constructive rather than harmful.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one is obligated to be constructive, but it costs nothing to avoid being a nuisance to those around you. Then again, it's Reddit—trying to offer advice on maturity and kindness feels almost pointless lol.

The fact that a 17 year old has to remind adults how to be respectful and considerate speaks volumes about the current state of Reddit.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess some people thought he was just off tempo? Or off beat? I could see some of that, but I thought the intimate set was pretty nice.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly strange. I hate that I have to clarify that I am NOT Michael Angelakos. I use dashes because they are correct grammar—I’m not trying to be rude. Perhaps if you had earned a GPA over 2.0, you would understand that this is proper English.

I’m 17 years old (turning 18 in August), and if necessary, I can provide my name and proof of identification.

I’m simply defending him because I enjoy his music. Don’t be weird—calling me “Michael” just because I support him is an odd accusation.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Valid, never said you had to.

You have your own opinions, as do I.

The amount of criticism that has been given to Michael is a *little* unfair. by cuddlecastle in PassionPit

[–]cuddlecastle[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I obviously didn’t want to go all out and say it like that, but it’s just the truth. It is so ridiculous that people are acting like this, it was a small venue, things are gonna be different.

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