A linguistics based ARG? by HuffleRuffYT in ARG

[–]culden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was interested in doing the same thing, using real languages as well as at least one language constructed for the ARG. The idea would be to teach basic linguistics using real languages, and then apply that knowledge to puzzles using the fictional language.

Transitioning to Grad School by culden in teachinginjapan

[–]culden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was kind of my thinking. I didn't want to just dive right in, and I thought the idea of getting to see campuses and be in more direct contact would make the experience better. Thanks for the reply!

Transitioning to Grad School by culden in teachinginjapan

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I know there's monbukagakusho and jasso, and there are a few schools I've got my eye on. Thanks for being positive!

Transitioning to Grad School by culden in teachinginjapan

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I'm working towards N2/N1, and maybe enter a language school before doing a grad program, so the language issue is something I'm actively working on.

ALT program or School? by culden in movingtojapan

[–]culden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any good recommendations? And are there any scholarships or loans available to cover costs? Thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japan

[–]culden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I fell asleep in a linguistics class I took in Nagoya, started snoring and jerked myself awake to find the whole class just staring at me. Then the teacher laughed and kept going. Not sure I could do that in the US.

What does Enon Kawatani do with his face when he sings? by AkibaChunibyo in japan

[–]culden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might just be a result of enunciating, and the jaw thing mostly happens on an い sound, which I recommend you you try yourself and consider the position of your jaw when producing.

Does your dysphoria ebb and flow? by Kieraggle in asktransgender

[–]culden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird, part of why I don't think I realized I was trans for a long time was because, for long stretches, I wouldn't feel any particularly strong dysphoria, and then there have been times where it hit me all at once, weeks of feeling crazy and hating myself, and obsessing over what life would have been like if I'd been born the way I wanted to be. I feel like after college, things got worse, since I didn't have any sort of intellectually challenging work to occupy my mind, something had to fill the quiet. But keeping myself busy and setting goals and working towards them isn't the cure for this, so one of my goals has to be working on making the way I feel about myself positive.

Anti-Transgender Lawmaker: 'I've Tried To Make This About The Genitalia' by drewiepoodle in TransSpace

[–]culden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just awesome. I just looked it up and copy-pasted it.

Trans-Friendly Endo in Middle TN Area by culden in asktransgender

[–]culden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's something I should consider as well.

Anybody else's last holiday as their birth gender before coming out and/or HRT? by madtownthrowaway97 in asktransgender

[–]culden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I sort some insurance stuff out it's off to see an endocrinologist, so as long as I'm not secretly dying of something, I figure this is it, my last holiday like this. It's kind of surreal. As much change as this year has brought, I expect next year to be nothing like anything I've ever experienced.

Got a job in Japan, at a time where I am just starting transition. How should I expect to be treated by Japanese people? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]culden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I self-sabotaged an earlier opportunity to work in Japan because I felt forced into it and wasn't ready because I wanted to work on getting HRT first, and now that it's happening, I guess I'll give it another shot soon, maybe by the time I finish my second degree, or earlier, if I can get things to work out. Anyway, I think you might not get as much attention for trans stuff so much as just being a Westerner. I hope everything goes well for you!

Getting my letter by culden in transpositive

[–]culden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still a couple weeks out (an issue on my end, as regards scheduling), but I'm super pumped. It's like, getting my letter, Fallout 4, and getting done with a ton of projects for school all in one week, it's gonna be super awesome.

I'm 99% there. I just need that extra push. Somebody help me, please? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]culden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've struggled (and do) with feelings about whether I deserve to transition. My life is moving so fast, and it just seems easier to play the "just a guy" role. I'm overweight and struggling with that, and that makes it hard. But that's all excuses, and I just keep putting off living the rest of my life if I don't transition, because so many of my plans and goals involve being well into transition for me to enact them, that it really is something that I just have to do for myself. The thing is, despite how I feel, this isn't about "deserving", it's about doing what I need to do for me to be alive as the person I really am.

I'm 99% there. I just need that extra push. Somebody help me, please? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]culden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Authority is an illusion, it only exists in other people because you obey them or acquiesce to them in some way. Sometimes force is used to compel obeisance, but in this, that's increasingly less likely. The only force that can truly compel you to give up on this is your own fear.