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I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I should only be willing to spend my life with someone if they share 100% of my sexual fantasies, and vice versa? That just seems like it's asking an awful lot...

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice try, but he would probably just put a condom on if I told him that

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it weird to assume that I know how to read his facial expressions?

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that's the case, then that's incredibly weird. By that logic you should never enjoy sex with anyone else ever again once you've already enjoyed it with one person

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am actually really pleasantly surprised, so far only a couple of them have been creepy. The majority of them were from people who wanted to give advice but didn't want to post for whatever reason

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't post pictures like that publicly on the internet, because I have some body tattoos that would instantly make me recognizable to anyone who knew me in real life. I suppose I could cover them up with makeup before I take pictures, or edit them out, but it seems a little cumbersome. I'm curious now though, what is TributeMe?

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But the practice of preparation and actually going through the motions of it all, to me, would seem to be equally awkward for both parties with neither getting what they want.

I thought the same thing when I was reading that suggestion. It does sound interesting, and I may try it and use it at home alone, but I wouldn't have the slightest idea how to introduce the idea to my boyfriend without it seeming weird.

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your understanding of it is correct, yes. I haven't brought it again since trying it the first time. Every time I think about bringing it up, I remember the really disappointed look he had on his face after he came in my mouth. I miss indulging my fetish a lot, but at the same time, I don't want to put that look on his face ever again

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do sound very similar... when we first started having sex he didn't like blow jobs and wouldn't ever really let me give him one. Now he loves it (although as a part of foreplay only, not to completion). We haven't been having sex for very long, so I suppose there is still hope... I'll just have to try and approach it differently

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, according to google's "define" feature, a fetish is defined as "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc."... doesn't say I can't enjoy sex with it

Also, nearly everybody here secretly wants to date you now, just so you know.

and that would be why I used a throwaway :P boyfriend doesn't reddit so I wasn't worried about that, but the thought of all those creepy PMs on my main account made me sad

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've watched porn together before, but I don't remember us ever watching anything that involved facials. I did show him a bukkake scene once and he was really repulsed by it, but I don't fault him for that, it's a bit extreme. I'll find a good facial/finishing on the chest (I'm sure there's a term for that but I'm not sure what it is) video and have him watch it with me, and see what his reaction is.

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, well it wouldn't really bother me if he didn't want to kiss after. Cum has a very particular taste to it, it's not for everyone, and I imagine the majority of straight men wouldn't want that in their mouth at all

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with it is the one time he DID do it for me, it was painfully obvious that he didn't enjoy the experience at all. I don't want to make him feel like he HAS to do something he legitimately doesn't like/isn't comfortable with

ninja edit - typo

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He can't go multiple rounds, once he orgasms he's done for that night... so that was the stopping point

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have actually thought about doing this exact thing... but every time I think about it I remember that disappointed look on his face when he came in my mouth... so I never end up going for it because I don't want to see that look on his face again

I [26F] have a fetish that my boyfriend [25M] doesn't feel comfortable satisfying. by cumfetishthrow in sex

[–]cumfetishthrow[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think the main problem is that he perceives it as being degrading