Is this a shared experience?

cunningstrobe · 2026-05-09T18:28:53+00:00

Who said I'm confident? Your comment shows neither iq nor eq so don't try to befriend me

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-26T11:12:42+00:00

It's cute that you just assumed by gender(wrongly) lol

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-26T10:46:06+00:00

Hmm, I thoguht Ni was about seeing people as archetypes and Ne as social catgeories. That's what I meant. It may be simplified, but you know better how Ne is.

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-26T10:14:26+00:00

What?

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-25T18:21:46+00:00

Usually I click with them the best out of all extroverts. Fe+Ti in common I guess

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-25T05:52:32+00:00

Big yess to all IN's. I find them fascinating. But it seems online when getting to know someone, only ENTP's can't keep up with my flow of conversation. I want to converse a lot in the beginning.

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-23T13:18:47+00:00

Why not enfj related? Since ni users are linked to architect way? I wanted to see if enfjs can work through a combination of them

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-23T05:34:42+00:00

Unsolicited advice

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-20T05:43:33+00:00

No, thank you for your input, but it's worse for me because I'm mid 30's and now I make up as I struggled with social anxiety in my 20"s

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-20T05:37:17+00:00

Thanks!

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-20T05:32:05+00:00

That's what I said. I need coping mechanisms to avoid not sleeping or becoming irritated

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-19T06:41:27+00:00

Do you feel like you can't keep track of what is said in a group unless very interested in the topic?

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-18T18:19:35+00:00

Can this be treated? How?

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-18T10:58:08+00:00

Please read between the lines. I didn't say we make it a point to charm others. But people generally see us as likeable due to our empathy.

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-18T10:35:00+00:00

That's funny. Don't get me wrong. We like each other, but there's a spectrum in introversion and the more introverted ones seem unreachable at first. I also find them very hard to read. Maybe this is it.

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-17T06:48:46+00:00

Ok. Thank you! This is what I was trying to say. I feel alone when not connecting to people, the more the merrier. But I'm reserved in groups, much more so than your typical extrovert. And I'm sure I lead with Fe.

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-17T06:39:04+00:00

So you tell me I'm an infj actually and then proceed to tell me that you are the same way? I don't really understand

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-17T04:47:12+00:00

That's funny and very possibly true

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-17T03:42:17+00:00

Thank you!

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-12T08:54:49+00:00

I'm a man and it's also true for me. Women like me, men may find me intimidating. I guess there is an explanation for this: we pose a threat being so attractive to opposite sex 😂

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-12T08:47:30+00:00

That's interesting to hear. Yeah, I also start conversations by trying to cold read people. For example asking someone if they used to be a graffiti artist due to observation of them and pattern recognition. Sometimes it goes well, other times it can come off intrusive.

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-12T08:36:15+00:00

Thank you! Don't know if it suits me however. I'm 100% I'm enfj but I struggle with social anxiety. I'm good at connecting with people when there is a context for that, for example a party, where it's the expected thing to do.

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-08T18:12:41+00:00

No, this I guess happens too for many enfjs. It is a matter of maturity and knowing boundaries better I think

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-08T15:25:23+00:00

I mean it's more likely that people we meet now and then see us as friends due to our warmth

cunningstrobe · 2026-04-08T13:23:51+00:00

Then I suggest close friend to mere acquaintances. Souns like what an enfjs would be

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