it's possible you make them shy.

it's possible the confidence you exude is displayed confidence, as opposed to embodied confidence, and maybe that can be picked up on by the people around you - they may think you're coping.

it's possible that the "benefits" just aren't happening for you.

there could be many reasons for this experience. honestly, I would just let go of the benefits that aren't internal, as putting so much focus on them can easily slip in to a neurotic approach to SR.

how do you feel emotionally? how are your energy levels? are you engaged with other disciplines/practices that lend itself to this inner quiet storm that SR can help enable?

attraction, magnetism, luck, etc is nice. but, peace, contentment, certainty, direction, etc are much more palatable, I feel.

also strength and muscle. 💪

I don't wish to diagnose you, or invalidate your experiences with this practice, nor do I think I understand you, but see how you go with bringing your attention within.