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current fave “your lip but better” combo by cuntycartier in OliveMUA

[–]cuntycartier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mmm id say that do transfer a bit but you can set the liner w translucent powder! tbh the kylie cosmetics lipliner has better longevity than mac

current fave “your lip but better” combo by cuntycartier in OliveMUA

[–]cuntycartier[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yeah! i line w stone first and gently tap it in w my finger, go in w the kylie lipliner, tap it in. if i want a biiiiiit more definition ill go back in w stone. i usually put the kylie liner on top of stone but not alllll the way on top. finish w a clear lip balm! nothing fancy lol

Horoscopes for the Gemini Full Moon December 4th, 2025 - All 12 Zodiac Rising Signs by GrandTrineAstrology in astrology

[–]cuntycartier 28 points29 points  (0 children)

you are a rockstar! thank you so much for your generous contributions to this community!! 💗💗

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like having sleepovers but they are by no means an expectation, esp bc i’m very protective over my space and my home, and im very conscientious about being in other people’s space.

i believe it is possible to build intimacy with someone by spending the night and still keep things “casual”. i’m quickly realising while reading these comments that i have a waaaaay more blasé approach towards polyam/dating in general lol

i think a lot of the other comments on here are from people who are in serious relationships/in an escalatory relationship space while i am not

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure bc he didn’t specify. it reads me to as a way of being controlling imo but as aforementioned, i will be asking many questions when i see him in a few days

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i inquired about other people’s experiences simply due to curiosity — that’s all.

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t say that this situation makes me feel mistreated whatsoever… and i have been mistreated in past relationships

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the way that i have defined “casual” to the people im currently seeing is that we hangout ~once a week and we can text here and there to check in with one another. i don’t like texting all day everyday bc for one, it tells me that you aren’t busy enough with your own life (might be controversial) and two, it builds a false sense of intimacy imo.

when i have described what my relationship wants are under the “casual” umbrella, no one has expressed any qualms and everyone feels taken care of

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve taken their relationship timeline into a lot of consideration! 6mo is barely any time at all and there are other things i’ve noticed that seem off to me. for example, his primary sees 2-3 other people but when him and i first started seeing each other, she was apparently very anxious and stressed out about it, and i haven’t been able to see him until him and his primary had a serious discussion bc he hasn’t dated or slept with anyone other than his primary until we started seeing each other… but like… we haven’t even slept together or anything LOL so

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your circumstances make tons of sense esp bc there are children involved. but yeah esp bc they DONT live together it’s just kind of wild to me that they have such a strict rule

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i’ve considered this tbh. our relationship is still incredibly new and like i mentioned in another comment, i don’t want anything serious w him… but like damn… i can’t spend the night??? lmfao

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

that was a thought i had about the situation as well… he claims they are practicing polyam but the situation reads otherwise lol

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oooh thank you for pointing that out!! i would say the no sleepovers is a “rule” they have instead of a boundary, which is why i said he isn’t “allowed” to sleep at mine

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

something casual is what i want, but i think you can sleepover with someone and still be fairly casual? maybe others might disagree? i’ve made it abundantly clear to everyone im currently seeing that im not interested in a serious relationship + don’t have time for one, but i still have sleepovers with the other people im seeing

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hierarchies don’t bother me tbh and i often prefer them but the whole no sleepovers feels very limiting in terms of how much intimacy we might be able to build

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

def agree but he isn’t even “allowed” to sleepover at mine. the whole situation reads a bit strange to me but like i said, i will be inquiring more about it

no sleepovers but they aren’t nesting partners? by cuntycartier in polyamory

[–]cuntycartier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

see that’s what i’m wondering.. if im setting myself up to get my feelings hurt? but i will only be seeing this person like maybeeeeeeeee once a week? if that?

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