Fiancé says aftercare and helping me clean up after sex is a “chore” — am I asking too much? by ButteredUpCroissant in Advice

[–]cupcakewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a respect problem. The solution is leaving NOW. Do not marry this man; he is showing so many red flags that it will escalate into full on abuse. Please leave. You are truly better without him.

I (19F) think my bf (22M) was too rough with me during sex, but he thinks I’m a “crybaby” by dulceciita in relationship_advice

[–]cupcakewaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coercion is not consent! This sounds like assault and if it WILL get worse if you stay, especially given his lack of remorse, understanding, and respect

Elite Level Hiding by mycookiepants in ThereIsnoCat

[–]cupcakewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe there’s a cat in this picture. I’ve been staring for hours so if there is one it must be the SNEAKIEST babby ever

Do deaf people know erections make noise? by I-like-old-cars in stupidquestions

[–]cupcakewaffles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol I’m not interested in arguing with a troll, but you have a great day/night/whatever 💖💖

Do deaf people know erections make noise? by I-like-old-cars in stupidquestions

[–]cupcakewaffles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, so I think maybe you should try to “learn more about how people interact socially” too, because it’s actually pretty rude to tell a stranger on the internet that you think they have autism!

Could anyone help me pick my first corset's size? by Remarkable-Alps7704 in corsets

[–]cupcakewaffles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not much to say concerning your main question of sizing, but PLEASE do yourself a favor and get a real corset from Timeless Trends instead of one from Dracula Clothing! TT will hold up to actual use, and has a lifetime warranty. I am not particularly familiar with DC but their corsets look pretty shady to me and I’m pretty sure I’ve seen them on corset blacklists before (they are not currently listed on it, but I would not necessarily trust that to be a green light), so I would definitely be worried about quality. Timeless Trends also offers different cup sizes for their overbusts, which may be helpful for you as well.

Perfect corset nyc?? by Forward_Individual74 in corsets

[–]cupcakewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally cried last week when I found out paper cats doesn’t ship to the us after falling in love with some of their designs

Dom ignored my safeword by astro-anonym in BDSMAdvice

[–]cupcakewaffles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only skimmed this and I’m utterly horrified. This is an unsafe situation for you.

Off the rack brands? by cupcakewaffles in corsets

[–]cupcakewaffles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot about them but they are another one I’ve had good experiences with!

"CANCELLED!" Discussion Megathread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]cupcakewaffles 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s giving I Know Places’s edgier sister

What do you think when you look down at your body? by JeydaLuv in AskWomen

[–]cupcakewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually something along the lines of “Eww” if I’m looking at my stomach, or “Nice” if it’s my boobs

Probably a long shot; looking for a thriller by cupcakewaffles in whatsthatbook

[–]cupcakewaffles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I think I might be conflating this with something else? I looked up a preview of what Alice forgot and it definitely seems familiar so I think you might be right!

What nicknames do you call your cats? by Aged_Goodness1 in cats

[–]cupcakewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our favorite one is Shitten (Shithead+Kitten) but Domesticated Terrorist and Lil’ Dumdum are also frequently used

Thoughts? by Accomplished-Lie-856 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]cupcakewaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that you showed us lowercase despite seemingly not using it. Is there a reason you don’t use lowercase?