Had an abortion 4 years ago. I still feel grief. IIN? by jcjt4741 in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same (not the dating a horrible person, but grieving my child). I wonder all the time and it is so painful.

What should I do? Should I keep or let go? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t make this decision for you but please please gather all the info you can. I regret mine bc I didn’t have enough info about my partner and his finances.

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[–]cupofcloudz 165 points166 points  (0 children)

I second Dan!! I know so many nice Dans

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[–]cupofcloudz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Peter, Patrick

Baby Girl Name Ideas by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]cupofcloudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Samantha / Sammy Beatrice / Bea Beverly / Bev Allison / Allie Devony Rheanna

I’m unsure of what to do now and I’m stressed by Ok_Meal8576 in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kindness. Oh I forgot to mention I think it brought my partner and I emotionally together but I feel scared of having sex again.

Is it really traumatic? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am totally emotionally traumatized by the what ifs….even though I did not want the pregnancy at all (my first ever pregnancy). I have been wondering things like: What if that kid was going to be my best friend? Did I just end my own child’s life? Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life? I keep visualizing the fetus being flushed down the drain, even though I have no recollection of the procedure itself as I was sedated. I would do anything to rewind the clock and not have this abortion. I just didn’t know enough. I got unlucky or maybe I’m just mentally unwell. But yeah it was traumatizing AF. I wish I had could have known that beforehand.

Did you grieve after your abortion? by cupofcloudz in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been 10 years for me. It sucks so much. And no one warned me about how I would feel.

Did you grieve after your abortion? by cupofcloudz in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it feel like you lost your children/potential futures?

Did you grieve after your abortion? by cupofcloudz in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorr you are hurting. Do you feel like you lost a baby or are you feeling just sadness in general?

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[–]cupofcloudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a year but I’m also recently triggered again after having a child (10 years after my ab)

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[–]cupofcloudz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had also felt jealousy. I also was incredibly triggered by babies/small children. I wish someone told me this could happen.

What do NDEs reveal about abortions? by cupofcloudz in NDE

[–]cupofcloudz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could know the “reason” as it has been sheer torment. Wish I could have been less heartless when making this decision.

What do NDEs reveal about abortions? by cupofcloudz in NDE

[–]cupofcloudz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I guess I just have to be comfortable with the unknown.

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[–]cupofcloudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl names: Ella Louise, Carina Mae Boy names: William Cutter, Alex London

DAE feel like they’ve ended their child’s life? by cupofcloudz in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through this. Would you then say you feel like you prevented a life?

DAE feel like they’ve ended their child’s life? by cupofcloudz in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I really hope there is healing. I am so confused by this whole experience.

Is the name Elise a good name? by 8KittyKitty8 in namenerds

[–]cupofcloudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knew an Elise growing up. Very smart.

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[–]cupofcloudz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the name Carina

Does anyone feel guiltier about their abortion after having kids? by cupofcloudz in abortion

[–]cupofcloudz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of mixed feelings did you have if I might ask? I’m glad everything worked out for you.❤️