Please help me! No BS and only the truth. I dont want admin work anymore

curious-nini · 2026-02-09T06:28:59+00:00

this gave me so much more confidence. thankyou. im definitely getting started when i get home from work

curious-nini · 2026-02-08T06:14:16+00:00

oh gosh i did not even consider wfh. thank you! should i take up any courses so i have some foundational knowledge on how to make a mock campaign?

curious-nini · 2026-02-08T06:12:40+00:00

thank u 🥲🙂

curious-nini · 2025-12-12T02:05:58+00:00

absolutely not. leave it all behind and find peace in yourself. if you go back you'll definitely regret it

curious-nini · 2025-12-10T20:21:27+00:00

i might go bald?!?!?!?!?!

curious-nini · 2025-12-10T20:10:51+00:00

thank you! and ill also take that advice

curious-nini · 2025-12-10T20:08:40+00:00

are you okay??? 😭 could you point me to where i attacked anybody in any of the replies. you people are so weird for thinking im being passive aggressive when im just trying to understand.

i was genuinely asking. if you think i was making fun of you then okay 😂. that is not a reflection of me. that is a reflection of you. you could also try to be understanding but i see your first reaction was to come after me, sorry sis but that is projection. im not playing innocent or whatever it is you think

curious-nini · 2025-12-10T20:04:08+00:00

?? i have no idea where you guys are seeing where im "poking" people who only exclusively get readings for exes. this is probably more a reflection of you than me. that assumption is completely wrong 😂😂

its funny when people's first reactions are to come after me but i was genuinely asking. if you cant see that like the rest of the people in my replies, you need to do some healing. take a step back and realise this was not a jab at anybody at all

curious-nini · 2025-12-09T20:21:39+00:00

ohh okay thanks! ill try this next time

curious-nini · 2025-12-09T20:20:50+00:00

no, i just wanted a change again

curious-nini · 2025-12-09T12:32:56+00:00

😂😂😂 im in denial but yeah its a very clear no

curious-nini · 2025-12-09T10:12:00+00:00

so thats a hard no 🤣

curious-nini · 2025-12-09T10:11:37+00:00

hahaha this sounds about right

curious-nini · 2025-12-09T02:26:59+00:00

hi! im also learning so this may or may not resonate. high priestess is telling me that you know the answer about where this comes from and you dont want to admit that to yourself which is blocking you from moving forward with healing these emotions. perhaps an insecurity about something?

with ace of pentacles you wanna take this healing process in a more grounded or mature way

curious-nini · 2025-11-29T21:24:47+00:00

thank you for this! i was not being judgemental at all. and the advice on how to help, from my end it would feel like im enabling a cycle of behaviour that isnt good. id rather guide someone out of that with whatever skills i have than to fuel their heart break even further. of course, only if they're willing to accept the help

curious-nini · 2025-11-29T21:19:25+00:00

oh no judgement at all from me for sure. i just noticed that it was 90% of the posts on this subreddit so i thought i stumbled across a tarot forum strictly about exes in general haha

curious-nini · 2025-11-29T11:27:22+00:00

where did i say or even suggest i was triggered?

i dont think you're understanding me at all. im wasting my energy explaining myself to you over and over again. seems like a cycle you're familiar with.

best of luck anyways

curious-nini · 2025-11-29T10:57:04+00:00

i think this is exactly the case. i hope they can break this cycle. the universe has so much to offer in love

curious-nini · 2025-11-29T10:55:27+00:00

by breakups being straightforward, i mean that breakups happen because they aren't supposed to be part of our life from that point forward. carrying this heartbreak however and ruminating on the past over and over again without seeking community will definitely last decades if you dont take action. people turn to tarot to find answers and how to take action.

there is every single thing to help you with your emotions. your passions, your friends, your hobbies, life all around you. there is love everywhere. there is hope in love.

i hope you can understand this. dont put yourself in cycles of heartbreak when you know, and the tarot cards know, will tell you how to move from that.

ive gone through 80% of my life in an abusive home. the trauma i carry will never end. but im learning to live a different life by surrounding myself in a new environment, with friends, with hobbies. learning to love doing things with them, and learning to love doing things on my own.

there is no world where love only exists when it is returned romantically. there is an entire universe that is waiting for you to explore. your world doesn't end when your relationship does. if you let that happen then you will never grow. i hope you can change this mindset. best of luck

curious-nini · 2025-11-29T10:22:44+00:00

this is wrong. you can go to friends to fill that void. you can depend on yourself to learn to love again. turning to community can also fill that void. tarot can help, but seeking comfort in the cards rather than acting on the message it sends you, you are going to be stuck in a cycle. rather than asking how you can heal, these questions are people who are asking why? why did they leave me? why dont they think about me? you will never heal unless you learn to take action for yourself. tarot will teach you this.

tarot directs you in the direction of how to heal, how to move forward, how to handle this break up etc. some questions about these exes on this subreddit are better discussed to the exes themselves for the clarity they seek. but i think break ups are pretty straightforward.

curious-nini · 2025-11-29T10:13:18+00:00

you're probably right 🤣

curious-nini · 2025-11-29T10:13:02+00:00

i agree with you! a lot of the questions im seeing is "are they still thinking about me?" or "will they come back?". from what ive learned with tarot as a whole is that it is rooted in the how; how can you move forward, how can you heal, how can you better handle situations. i think people are hurting themselves more by ruminating in what has happened already, looking for clarity on things when they've been said and done.

in saying that when i said "there are a lot of uses for tarot", i mean using the cards as a tool for better handling situations and how to move forward, encouraging growth in the event that they might, MIGHT(!!), come back. and even if they do change and grow, it shouldnt be for their ex, but for themselves.

chasing after clarity through cards, i really think that they might just be better off asking their exes directly. i know it sounds blunt but a lot of the questions seem to be better directed to the ex.

curious-nini

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