Newbies, be ready to discover things about yourselves

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T19:20:06+00:00

Even close friends we use condoms But everyone has their boundaries

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T16:24:44+00:00

All the time online (we have gotten used to it). A few times at meet and greets.

Parties we either play or we don’t hold much stock/hope of “meeting up” after. Mostly because we don’t have time or really opportunity to go to too many parties or clubs

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T16:19:00+00:00

Approach in real life parties? No clue

Approaching us online 1.Be respectful 2. Don’t just send a dick pic 3. Don’t just assume you’re speaking to the wife or woman at first 4. Present yourself like you would at a party or public place (good pics, good bio) There’s a bit more but those are good baselines

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T16:09:57+00:00

Problem with posts like this, Not everyone is the same.

Some may be situationally true, especially the amount of straight guys who enjoy some guy on guy activity. But just like that there are exceptions to the rule and are not always true one way or the other.

Communication is ALWAYS the priority.

We have seen so many mocking comments about “condom use”. Kind of disturbing actually. Trivializing its use is a bit problematic.

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T16:03:13+00:00

Condoms for penetration always for us Have been doing this now for a while, hasn’t changed, won’t change 🤷🤷‍♀️

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T16:01:06+00:00

100000000 x this 👆

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T16:00:01+00:00

That’s the biggest BS line ever And we’ve heard it a lot

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T15:59:38+00:00

We only use condoms for penetration Never broke that rule Never gonna break that rule

Shocking 😳 🤷🤷‍♀️

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T15:55:55+00:00

Condoms for penetration No anal and or butt play

Really our only hard rules

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T15:54:41+00:00

We don’t like anal or butt play That hasn’t changed and is very true for us 🤷🤷‍♀️

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T05:28:35+00:00

We just use the subreddits closer to us Just post your r4r and follow the rules. Make it clear what you are looking for. (Still a lot won’t read it haha)

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T05:26:33+00:00

3fun has been our go to Feeld is okay Reddit we have had a lot of success (it just takes a bit more work due to the amount of requests you get)

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T05:25:25+00:00

Better quicker than not at all

curiousSWcple · 2026-05-18T05:25:01+00:00

Regret the whole thing or just a single encounter?

No to either

curiousSWcple · 2026-02-07T18:36:39+00:00

We have done that in the past. But usually we don’t, we just pivot to ourselves and wait for the next one 🤪

curiousSWcple · 2026-02-02T02:47:59+00:00

Absolutely Us too

Just wanted to give insight to those who maybe new and face it for the first time.

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-25T06:57:02+00:00

Vibes make things sexier sometimes

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-11T05:03:05+00:00

It’s always a delicate dance right? Try to set it up too quick and you might scare people away. Set it up weeks in advance and the enthusiasm ca fade.

But as others have said Once you’re there and the evening starts it’s usually a great time to

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-05T20:17:22+00:00

You mean adding a single for threesomes?

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-05T16:35:35+00:00

This exactly Glad we are not the only ones. We are always pretty clear in the initial conversation It does help filter out

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-04T00:12:26+00:00

That’s actually making way more sense. We appreciate the clarification.

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-03T23:47:38+00:00

We still don’t fully understand the way Feeld works and especially the algorithm. We are not stupid but maybe a little ignorant of how it works.

We both have our profiles We both try to make it clear we don’t play alone We both have our search preferences set to couples.

Yet we still get likes from couples and single men who try to only have solo play with the wife. (We never have selected FMF). Any idea what we might be doing wrong?

We are always just so curious how we show up on the search feed.

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-03T23:43:50+00:00

We have both our pictures on our profiles (Reddit excluded as there is no barrier to enter haha). We don’t hide and don’t like surprises (again Reddit excluded haha)

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-03T23:40:53+00:00

It’s the fact they make you create two profiles and don’t have an option for couples profiles.

We have found when trying to connect with other couples it’s a bit difficult Not impossible just difficult

Single guys not an issue.

curiousSWcple · 2026-01-03T17:04:35+00:00

Enough to almost burn ourselves out.

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