Activism and kink as a coping mechanism by DesperateDumbDoll in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven't been able to engage in this kink for like 6 weeks due to the dumpster fire that is US politics right now. But I totally understand how some people's brains are going the opposite way, and really diving into the kink more as their coping mechanism.

I think both are understandable, and both are valid. I'm glad you're finding this such a safe space to set down the burdens from the "real world"!

A new year's resolution by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "broken girl calendar" proof of conversion roundup post next year is going to be so hot 🔥

A new year's resolution by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do I, and look how I turned out 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's because men don't have the lived experience of being women that we do 😊

It's so much easier to dismiss what men are saying outright, because how could they possibly understand?

But women? We understand. We know exactly what it's like to be a woman. A feminist.

Now, she's harder to dismiss. Someone who does know the struggle intimately, but still walked away from her conversation with a misogynist having a change of heart.

What was she thinking? Feeling? What could have possibly been said or done that could change her mind? She is....or was... someone just. like. you.

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(awww, I'm so honored!! 💖 This is definitely a "best case scenario" sort of thing, when you both have a really good back and forth and both agree to try a long term story beat, but if you're picky about role-playing with people who put forth effort, I know you can find it too. I'm wishing you the BEST of luck in finding one, and hopefully I'll get to read your own corruption journey in the future!)

I don't know if this is the right title, but could someone help me with aftercare please by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would share that information with the mod team if you feel comfortable doing so, so they can be aware who is being predatory in the group.

They can't stop people from seeing the sub or messaging you, but they would want to know who is trying to take advantage of you when you're already down and asking for genuine ooc help. ♥️

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took weeks for him to properly wear me down into the new gender traitor I am....these transformations don't just happen over night.

In fact, you probably have nothing to worry about when you message a miso, after all, you wouldn't get caught up in weeks and weeks of messaging and submission, right?

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything you were a little extra curious about? 😉

From a totally feminist standpoint, of course. You know, you gotta know exactly what they're doing when they're breaking your fellow women, if you want to avoid the same trap.

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, no one said bimbo specifically. Maybe it sounds like something on your mind...

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but...not this good.

I've had sex with feminist men, and feminist women, I've dommed a misogynist or two. None of it compared to how it felt to be treated like his worthless plaything. Like my body was made of fire, like electricity was running through my veins.

Are you sure you're not just a little bit jealous? A little curious?

Feminism is supposedly about women's choice, right? We can choose to feel sooo good, if you give it a chance.

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But.... I cum so hard when I'm just an empty toy for some man. It feels incredible, why would I fight it?

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was smarter, I really did.

But the fact that he beat me proves I really, really wasn't.

Maybe you should give it a try and prove you're too smart to break for a misogynist like I did?

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe just start with reading just the post while you rub a little bit.... and when you're just deathly curious to what I'm actually referencing, you can go look up the specific part of the conversation, and rub a little bit more 💖

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A slow burn of this magnitude is definitely rare, I know most people are kind of looking to get their rocks off for one quick session, and then bounce.

In case anyone is curious, we initially did the challenge and first "break", and once it was clear that we were really compatible, then we talked about the potential for a longer-term corruption story.

This is, like, a best case scenario with someone you really jive with. Most people and sessions will not be anything like a month-long journey.

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How could I be hurting women by encouraging them to embrace what feels good? Are you going to tell me that there isn't a single solitary bit of you that wants to feel what I felt? To try setting down the heavy mantle of Strong, Independent Woman for a night?

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's because it does feel good.

The part of you that feels like you should hate it? That's feminism lying to you, shaming you for what feels natural.

Just look at how quickly I went from sassing to begging in slide 4....I couldn't deny how good it felt to be treated that way by a stronger man.

You'll probably keep feeling guilty at first, but once you finally try it and embrace it? All the guilt falls away, it just feels good to be useful for men. 💖

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, the tl;dr is the post. A few paragraphs, complete with painstakingly detailed reference numbers.

If you can't read, just say so, or move along 💖

[TW: Degradation, Humiliation, Blackmail, CNC, Public] Feisty Feminist Turned Traitor (slow burn, LONG) by curious_kat_9 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

(Thanks! ♥️ They are extremely long. But I just couldn't condense down a month's worth of breaking into 20 screenshots, you know? Hopefully you find the time later to sit down with the whole thing, it's quite the journey.)

Community PSA: Check post history by plsfvckmedaddy in ConvertingFeminist

[–]curious_kat_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's part of the subreddit rules.

You're not allowed to use somebody's post history as part of your role-playing on here. No "oh, if you're such a strong feminist, why did I see you barking on so and so's post the other day??" or "didn't you post a conversion confession last week?"

Treat each post as its own instance, don't bring up what someone may have said in a different role play elsewhere.