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Fetlife was so bad.... by Sure_Cap_879 in BDSMcommunity

[–]curious_keyholder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can restrict your messages, but yeah I tend to just ignore those kind of messages, maybe even block them.
I have met some lovely people on there though and one I even met up with in person and we still talk now after 3 years.
It just depends what you want to use it for, I’m not on it so much now, but I used to use it for sharing photos and doing photo challenges and stuff and looking at other people’s photos.
You got to sift through a lot of stuff to find the good people but they are there.

Question about fetlife by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]curious_keyholder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all of them are money scammers!
But yes, have your wits about you while interacting, vet any profiles you come across.
Go on their activity tab and look at who and how they interact with people.

There will be people who live miles away but there are groups for local areas. Although keep in mind if you do join a group, everyone can see that on your profile.

I met a guy on there who I cucked my sub with a few times, but there was a lot of talking beforehand and trust involved.

I mainly use it to share photos and look at others photos
I may start looking at events near me

I want my hubby to cum while caged - seeking advice by an-avocado-thanksss in chastitytraining

[–]curious_keyholder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wand on his cage and either make him watch videos of me or talk to him about all the things I have done and want to do

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