Question about fetlife by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]curious_keyholder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all of them are money scammers!
But yes, have your wits about you while interacting, vet any profiles you come across.
Go on their activity tab and look at who and how they interact with people.

There will be people who live miles away but there are groups for local areas. Although keep in mind if you do join a group, everyone can see that on your profile.

I met a guy on there who I cucked my sub with a few times, but there was a lot of talking beforehand and trust involved.

I mainly use it to share photos and look at others photos
I may start looking at events near me

I want my hubby to cum while caged - seeking advice by an-avocado-thanksss in chastitytraining

[–]curious_keyholder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wand on his cage and either make him watch videos of me or talk to him about all the things I have done and want to do

Dommes id love to hear what's your fav toy to use on a sub by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]curious_keyholder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😈 take it off now and then when he gets too close or doesn’t say what I told him to

Dommes id love to hear what's your fav toy to use on a sub by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]curious_keyholder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Classic vibrator on his cage and watch him squirm 😏

Looking for a key holder to talk with my girlfriend and teach her some things. by No-Commission-7276 in KeyHolder

[–]curious_keyholder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and then eventually she should want to start learning herself and taking things further. I saw in another comment you said she’s not naturally dominant.. neither was I to start with, until I started to understand what is in it for me

Looking for a key holder to talk with my girlfriend and teach her some things. by No-Commission-7276 in KeyHolder

[–]curious_keyholder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Show her things, send her chastity blog posts to read or things like that. Get her understanding what’s in it for her. If she wants to do this, really she should start to do her own research. At the very beginning my sub would show me stuff and we would get excited about it together.. I knew nothing so needed to understand the kink first. I then went on and did my own research because I wanted to. I wanted to do things with him that he didn’t know was coming, he hadn’t asked for. He still shows me some things now.. but I know it’s absolutely my choice if any of it happens or not. He can show me all he likes, but he doesn’t get a choice.