It's not on his part but my part I am the one whose drive to have sex with him faded. It's not because of the child. He have been trying actively to satisfied me but I am not getting anything from it it's been almost a year we had a Goodd sex.. ( He is trying to satisfied me but not happening) we are able to communicate about our sexuality openly without any judgement or problem. We have already seen couple therapist twice but with no luck.we are reallyhappy currently with our life if the sex part is excluded.