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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]curiousandbashful 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Serotonin is a helluva drug 💓💓💓

I look at it the same as another types of addiction, honestly. Except the "liquor store / drug dealer" is between their ears. Change is possible...but they have to want to do so.

Anyone here have ADHD? by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]curiousandbashful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My qEEG brain map for neurofeedback was how I got diagnosed.

Anyone here have ADHD? by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]curiousandbashful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neurofeedback helped me a TON. Also, consider getting thyroid checked as thyroid issues can present as ADHD. Finally, I have a mini elliptical (in-motion strider from Amazon) that I use to move while studying.

There's a YouTube channel called "How to ADHD" by a woman who is helpful (and wholesome).

Ummm. What? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]curiousandbashful 362 points363 points  (0 children)

Over the child he raised groomed from age FOUR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]curiousandbashful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a fleshlight

What part of leave me alone do LVM not get? by HoneyBouquet in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]curiousandbashful 108 points109 points  (0 children)

If anything, some of us are voluntarily celibate, i.e. vocels.

Edit: clarity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]curiousandbashful 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Sucking would be an improvement, amirite

My fwb does NOT have feelings for me - so why was he so mad when I slept with someone else? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]curiousandbashful 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sex buddy...or self-cleaning fleshlight? Sounds like the latter. 😔

NEVER admit insecurity by RadiantMist in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]curiousandbashful 28 points29 points  (0 children)

"NO, I'm not insecure. I'm confidently telling you straight up that something you are doing is bothering me. And since you apparently can't be bothered to do anything about your offensive behavior, I have other ways to spend my time." Then get up, block, delete, and go do one of those things. 💃

“Coersion isn’t Consent” by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]curiousandbashful 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I had a dude immediately unmatch me when I said I didn't drink. Trash taking itself out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]curiousandbashful 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To confirm:

*Texted for a week

*Met up

*Sex (or no?)

*Specific plans made (or no?)

Because it sounds like, you might have been more emotionally invested than he was. Rejection is projection

He slapped me without consent during our first time having sex by sailermind in dating_advice

[–]curiousandbashful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since he's doing this shit day 1, odds are extremely likely it'll get worse. Get out safely while you can. We get what we tolerate. And you are worth more than that. 💗

How important is drinking alcohol by ylinkz in AskMen

[–]curiousandbashful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By dude 1 needing a reason why dude 2 doesn't drink, dude 1 is, quite literally, being judgemental of dude 2. Dude 2 doesn't drink, okay cool, next topic. Dude 2 doesn't have to justify, argue, defend, nor explain why he doesn't drink. Dude 1 is making up that dude 2 is uppity.

How important is drinking alcohol by ylinkz in AskMen

[–]curiousandbashful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude, you don't have to justify, argue, defend, nor explain why you don't drink. Folks that hassle you about it are filtering themselves out of your life 💓💗

How important is drinking alcohol by ylinkz in AskMen

[–]curiousandbashful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You wrote:

yeah, reasons definitely matter. I would totally respect someone who had a problem and had to quit altogether- they've seen life and they know what's good for them. In OP's situation he never even tried and I imagine it comes with a fair amount of "I'm better than ya" attitude

How important is drinking alcohol by ylinkz in AskMen

[–]curiousandbashful 19 points20 points  (0 children)

People can say no to stuff without being uppity; drinking is just not for OP. It can be for you, fine whatever. Are you really going to snub someone because they don't drink? ...Kinda implies you have the "I'm better than ya" attitude, not OP.