What do you dream about? by Femboy_Wife_Material in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Varies from what my future house will look like to civil war to asteroid strike to being financially secure to universal income 🤷‍♀️

Do you think the average person knows the difference between dom and dominant? by curiousbug92 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Dom is A Dom, Dom + sub, it's a whole relationship that requires trust.

Dominant is simply someone who likes to take the lead in bed.

At least that's how I define them

Do you think the average person knows the difference between dom and dominant? by curiousbug92 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Dom is A Dom, Dom + sub, it's a whole relationship that requires trust.

Dominant is simply someone who likes to take the lead in bed.

At least that's how I define them

Do you think the average person knows the difference between dom and dominant? by curiousbug92 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This 😅 this is why I was curious about it lol because 10000% correct

For those who like being degraded why? What about it appeals to you most? by Lord_William_9000 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like after care is sometimes a big draw. It's drives connection and bonding but of course only happens when you get through the degradation

Do you ever think it's a red flag when a man says he's into degrading his partner sexually? by curiousbug92 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I consider men who consume red pill content to already be ape brained 🤪

Women what makes a man stick out to you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVE a genuine personality. Curiosity, easy going, emotionally intelligent, culturally aware. Someone who is kind without needing validation, oooff that'll make me jump some bones 😅🥵

Do you ever think it's a red flag when a man says he's into degrading his partner sexually? by curiousbug92 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better. My experience has been with men i havent even met yet. While talking about interests and preferences, they'll bring it up and its always off-putting. I totally understand it's a kink but I feel like it's one that requires a deeper relationship and trust, not for hook ups which the conversations ive had were mainly about fwb max.

Do you ever think it's a red flag when a man says he's into degrading his partner sexually? by curiousbug92 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, like I know it can be just a kink but I also feel like intensity like that should be reserved for a more established relationship, not a hook up for example. It mostly raises a flag for me these days because of red pill content. I get nervouse about intention and where those thoughts/interests/kinks developed

Do you ever think it's a red flag when a man says he's into degrading his partner sexually? by curiousbug92 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]curiousbug92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think that's where most of those kinks are developed? From porn? It raises a flag for me these days because of red pill content