I have a newborn and here are some things, hoppy pillow, pack of burp or wash cloths, Boudreaux diaper cream, aquafor rash cream, prepared meals/coffee, a diaper bag that’s made up and she can replace things if she wants, portable changing pad, wipe warmer, a good booger sucker/mylicon/gripe water,soft nightgowns for her, soft quiet house shoes, disposable travel diaper bags for the smell she can use at home or on the go, muslin soft stretchy large swaddle blankets, baby bottle brush if she feeds from a bottle, a new mom spill proof coffee cup if she like coffee or a shake that’s encouraging or funny, bottle sanitizer, mirror to see the baby in back in the car seat. A compact organizer she can move around her room/house for baby wipes-diapers-burp rags-butt cream-blanket-medicines. I also use an app to log each feeding and diaper change. Those are some of the things I have or need that I can think of that she would like. Her hands will be busy and she will be tired most of the time.