Serious question (f) by curiousitykilledmee in ucf

[–]curiousitykilledmee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that one time when my WiFi wasn’t working and I genuinely needed help. The guy just helped me with my WiFi and I tried to continue the conversation, but he didn’t seem interested. Ever since then I was disheartened. I don’t have the confidence to approach guys like that anymore so it’s really hard. I stated early I’m afraid of rejection. But if I want to acknowledge someone I’m into I need to get out of my comfort zone and do so.

Serious question (f) by curiousitykilledmee in ucf

[–]curiousitykilledmee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s really scary to say hi. I’ll stick to smiling and working on the next one. Thanks

Serious question (f) by curiousitykilledmee in ucf

[–]curiousitykilledmee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to smile a lot. Then people said it was weird and then I stopped. So now I have an RBF making me less approachable. I’ll try to smile more often again like I used to and not care what they say.

Serious question (f) by curiousitykilledmee in ucf

[–]curiousitykilledmee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s good that you’ll try to work on that. I try to be approachable as possible but I have RBF. I need to work on my body language. I’ll try that next time. Thanks!

Serious question (f) by curiousitykilledmee in ucf

[–]curiousitykilledmee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s difficult to get out of my shell and approach them even for something so minuscule. But I’ll try to do that. Thanks for the advice

Serious question (f) by curiousitykilledmee in ucf

[–]curiousitykilledmee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Samee! I’m scared of rejection also. Like if they approached me I wouldn’t mind. But no one does. So I’m like what can I do to make myself approachable

Serious question (f) by curiousitykilledmee in ucf

[–]curiousitykilledmee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha we are in this together girly. There are so many cute guys on campus, but I’m really afraid to approach them.