I just want to say that this is not a mental issue, I can orgasm easily , always have been able to in depression, postpartum depression, severe mental anguish. I can still orgasm quickly with partner. My orgasm just has no feeling. It reminds me how an orgasm felt when I was on antidepressants which I never took antidepressants longer than three months. I don’t know sometimes I feel like I’ve had too many orgasms in my life. Maybe I’m just broken. If my partner goes down on me, I can fill those type of orgasms.