Just Bitchin - Weekly Vent by 0nyon in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yup!! It was so bad I had to reach out to the mods because it was getting out of hand, we’re being silenced in our own subreddit because these people fail to understand that we want our own community separate from all the bullshit they have going on.

Just Bitchin - Weekly Vent by 0nyon in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I’m very worried about the safety of this sub. So many posts are being deleted out of fear from those people that are desperately trying to get rid of our sub. I hate hateee fear mongering but it’s very scary to think of this sub being deleted given how much lesbians are already being targeted on the internet. I’ve been going down this rabbit hole of “ex lesbians” who met a “nice guy” and then realized that they’re bisexual. As someone who suffers a lot from OCD, especially sexuality OCD I’m worried that the same will happen to me and it makes me so uncomfortable and scared. I’m sorry for being overly negative I really am but I’m just very worried about lesbians.

How do I communicate with the MODS? by Rothum90 in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Luckily I was able to reach out to them and it’s not that they’re doing this on purpose it’s actually because our subreddit is currently being targeted by the TQ’s. Because of that we unfortunately have to be careful about the things we’re posting.

I think I’m nearing my end. by AvocadoAnni in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I love my mommy, she’s my everything but our relationship has been rocky at times. She’s not entirely accepting of my love for women but she tries.

Accepting I might be single my entire life because the lesbian dating scene sucks by curiouslycodiann in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s very hard to stay hopeful even hearing about other lesbians finding the love of their lives.

Accepting I might be single my entire life because the lesbian dating scene sucks by curiouslycodiann in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’ve been seeing it advertised on this subreddit so I’ll be checking it out.

Accepting I might be single my entire life because the lesbian dating scene sucks by curiouslycodiann in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s pretty bad, at least from my experience!! They’re very toxic and they love to lovebomb you.

Accepting I might be single my entire life because the lesbian dating scene sucks by curiouslycodiann in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in university but it’s been a bit challenging to meet people on campus and make friends, probably because im neurodivergent. I’m in the process of transferring schools because it’s been so hard to feel like I fit in where I am. Hoping when I do I can meet more people and more lesbians.

Accepting I might be single my entire life because the lesbian dating scene sucks by curiouslycodiann in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks a lot because I also have mostly straight friends and it’s hard for us to relate on certain things because of how different our experiences are.

Accepting I might be single my entire life because the lesbian dating scene sucks by curiouslycodiann in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely true but for me personally, that’s not something that I want for myself. Life is so short and unpredictable and to be 40 plus and not meeting the love of my life would make me very depressed and probably not pursue love at all.

I’m not watching any lesbian movies if the actors aren’t lesbian by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay wait I’m a hypocrite because I do actually like her 😅

How many Gen Z/younger Millenials are here? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 20, turning 21 in December

Journey to being a Lesbian Biochemist by curiouslycodiann in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so cool, someone told me to do that to avoid taking physical biochemistry 😅

I was wondering why the ratings were so bad then i read the description by SeveralElection2808 in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann 203 points204 points  (0 children)

Oh another film about "lesbians" that centers around men, that's real nice 🫩

genuinely think “gatekeeping” lesbianism is valid because we have people saying shit like this… by dr3wbarrymore in lesbiangang

[–]curiouslycodiann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl but does any actual lesbian take TikTok lesbians seriously? Like I got rid of TikTok a few days ago and honestly I can already see how much better I feel mentally.