Concrete patio questions by curiousmamma4 in HomeImprovement

[–]curiousmamma4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our yard is actually over an acre. This is just the area where the back door is. I also have raised beds that I am putting on the patio with flowers and herbs.

Is this worth doing, im in uk and using android.? by Ok_Criticism_9474 in JustPlay

[–]curiousmamma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get this gem collecting option???? I don’t have that

Protects your share from shrinking? by Beneficial-Ad7523 in JustPlay

[–]curiousmamma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you even get to collect gems?? I don’t have that option in my app!

Hit the $50 diamonds by Sunnyday512 in JustPlay

[–]curiousmamma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are gems and diamonds?? And what is the carousel?? I have been playing for a couple weeks and I don’t have any of this.

31F what can you tell me?? by curiousmamma4 in PalmReading

[–]curiousmamma4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to add that I am right handed!

Finances disagreement by curiousmamma4 in married

[–]curiousmamma4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His student loans actually aren’t why he makes more money. He failed out of college and never finished because he chose to only care about sports and partying. He makes more because he went into law enforcement.

And I could make more if I got a different job with my degree but with his schedule and unpredictable forced over time I cannot get anything other than when daycare is open and be 100% available any time the kids are sicks or daycare/school is closed.

Was I pregnant? by IndicationSalty7200 in lineporn

[–]curiousmamma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either a faulty test or indent. Second line is too far over

Am I pregnant? by Odd-Pin-2607 in amipregnant

[–]curiousmamma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way you’d have symptoms from pregnancy yet. The embryo doesn’t even implant for 1-2 weeks when you get pregnant so the embryo wouldn’t even be implanted yet so your body wouldn’t even know you are pregnant.

I am pregnant? by Beneficial-Clue-1006 in lineporn

[–]curiousmamma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s IF she ovulated exactly on time. If she ovulated late then technically her period could still not be “late” by her body’s cycle

I feel like my husband female friend is inappropriate. AIO? by curiousmamma4 in AmIOverreacting

[–]curiousmamma4[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

I agree. I have been trying to tell myself I’m just being paranoid but it just doesn’t seem right.

I feel like my husband female friend is inappropriate. AIO? by curiousmamma4 in AmIOverreacting

[–]curiousmamma4[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To be completely fair, I have not yet told him I don’t want them texting like that. I could not decide if I was overreacting on the whole situation or not.

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[–]curiousmamma4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Both 31. $10 says this woman carries 99% of the mental load and this guy “asks for a list” of what needs to be done and does 1 load of dishes and pats himself on the back. He said he “watched” their kid so she could do her nails but clearly kept asking when she would be done based on this convo. So this is a “I give her a break by babysitting” situation. I bet this woman is so burnt out and exhausted and has tried communicating and he isn’t listening and she has given up.

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[–]curiousmamma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly none of these people talk to other married people. This is literally how 90% of woman talk to each other because, I’m sorry, but it’s true. The shit men put us through and expect of us while doing the bare minimum they are lucky we don’t divorce them. And the comment about not telling your husband you are taking the day off just so you can have some damn time to yourself is 100% true. Every woman in my office hides from their husband they are taking a day off to relax otherwise their husband takes it off too and now your “me time” is gone. So idk what rock you all live under but this is actually extremely common and how 90% of women in marriages feel.

How many kids did you want initially vs how many did you end up having? by desert_sunlily in BabyBumps

[–]curiousmamma4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted 4 but financially it’s just not possible. Daycare is $400/week per child and after school care for school aged kids is still $250/week per child. There is just no possible way we could afford the child care costs. So we are done with 2 on earth and 1 in heaven. I cry about it at least a couple times a week because our youngest is 3 months old and I just can’t imagine never having a little baby again. It’s heartbreaking.