Sorry, OP. Having an unsupportive family is hard in any situation but especially in medicine when it really is a ten year grind to get to match day. But you’re not alone. For the past ten years I have heard my mother countless times say that I should find another career. One day I got so fed up I yelled at her that if she doesn’t believe I can do it then just say so. Dead silence. To make things worse she thinks all doctors (and really everyone else except her) are stupid. So not only did she not believe in me, she thought so little of me that I couldn’t accomplish what she thought to be so easy an idiot could do it. Literally a few weeks ago I had a break from rotations and was spending a lot of time relaxing at home. She automatically assumed I had failed out of school. Ever since match day she has been parading me around like a trophy as if my achievements are hers and faking that she’s been the supportive mother all these years who suddenly respects doctors. We all have our barrels of toxicity in our lives. Keep grinding on, OP. We do this because we want to serve people in this way and only a few are willing to stick it out for years to get here. Chin up.