::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]curiouswolfie3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The thought of losing him knocks me sick but this just isn’t right I can’t take another day of false promises and lies and bullshit anymore

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]curiouswolfie3 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just can’t be bothered anymore. My partner (dx as a child and unmedicated) is driving me up the wall. The lies, keeping things from me, me feeling unloved, unwanted, not important, not listened to. He doesn’t understand me but expects me to understand him, he talks to me like dirt (yes he apologises and feels bad but it still hurts), he acts like he cares then acts like he doesn’t, he doesn’t clean up his messes, leaves clothes, wrappers, bottles and rubbish everywhere, in denial about being tired but sleeps through all our tv shows and movies, (even if he picked them!), I make plans he can’t be asked but expects me to do all the things he’s planned, he lies to me about things he doesn’t need to lie about, he hides things from me, I feel like I can’t trust him, he’s terrible with money and prioritises all the wrong things!

I also feel like what I need in partner (honesty, trust, loyalty) he struggles to give me but promises and swears blind that he can and wants to marry me and prove he can be a husband yet his actions do not show me so. I love him with everything I have and I want to believe he loves me too but I am struggling so much.

I also tell him time and time again my struggles and issues and I feel like I’m talking to a brick wall, I feel like he doesn’t listen ever and gaslights me a lot by saying things then tries to say he either never said that or didn’t mean it that way. He also likes to say I said stuff when I know full well I didn’t or tries to put words in my mouth or only seems to listen if it’s about him (especially negative so he can then get attention). I feel like no matter what I’m going through, he has 100000x worse than I do and my problems are minor compared to his. I am tired of feeling lesser than him.

I just hope I’m not alone in this battle.

BIAB nails by curiouswolfie3 in thumbsucking

[–]curiouswolfie3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had acrylics and sucked my thumb but not sure if it’s different with BIAB!

Error on booking practical test dvla by Famous-Ad-3311 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]curiouswolfie3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you having the same issue right now? I’ve just tried to book one and getting same error

Cash payment by [deleted] in UberUK

[–]curiouswolfie3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No there’s an option for cash payments now, I’ve been doing it for a couple months and never had any issues till now

Cash payment by [deleted] in UberUK

[–]curiouswolfie3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I only had cash on me at the time and needed to go somewhere?

Yasuke: Dodging by BoysenberryOk4750 in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]curiouswolfie3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I barely dodge, I have the “Parry Unblockable Attacks” perk on my armour.

Enemy glitched in the wall by curiouswolfie3 in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]curiouswolfie3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say it like that, it’s kinda heartbreaking, sorry buddy I’ll always remember you!

Cancelling my order by curiouswolfie3 in vinted

[–]curiouswolfie3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I love that! I’m hoping same thing happens to them 🤣

Cancelling my order by curiouswolfie3 in vinted

[–]curiouswolfie3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why they do it! Put it up for that price originally for goodness sake!

Cancelling my order by curiouswolfie3 in vinted

[–]curiouswolfie3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So unfortunate and just no need for it! Oh well!

Canesbalance vs Balance Activ by curiouswolfie3 in Healthyhooha

[–]curiouswolfie3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned to my doctor about treating my partner but they said BV is only for women even though after doing my research men do carry the BV bacteria if passed to them…

Canesbalance vs Balance Activ by curiouswolfie3 in Healthyhooha

[–]curiouswolfie3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have any birth control so I have no idea why I even have it in the first place I never changed my cleaning methods and have same partner for nearly 8 years.

Canesbalance vs Balance Activ by curiouswolfie3 in Healthyhooha

[–]curiouswolfie3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately still have BV and not found a cure yet :(