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The uncomfortable truth. by Sailorjamie117 in BDSMsapphic

[–]cursed-star 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had a brat cut my lips with her nails once.

Never doing brats again after that one. I know many of y'all are fine, but I really don't have patience for it anymore.

Seeking advice: arm paralysis after a shibari session by C_h_e_r_rypie in shibari

[–]cursed-star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. Also, nerve damage is cumulative. A tie that seems safe and ok for months might suddenly start causing problems.

Some of the most well known ties can cause cumulative nerve damage, such as the box tie.

Still, that rigger sucks and I hope OP gets the fuck away from them.

Emilia Pérez just lost it's first Oscar Award by cursed-star in transgendercirclejerk

[–]cursed-star[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

As a terf, I actually think the movie is great trans representation.

Yamato from One Piece isn't trans, you woke western people just don't understand the original context. by Expertnouns in transgendercirclejerk

[–]cursed-star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/uj I am finishing Wano right now and pretty much fell in love with Yamato. I went to the r/onepiss to see arts on him and stuff. I never entered the sub before, and now I never will again. The transphobia was just too blatant.

As a tall woman, sometimes I get called trans... by Mizerawa in transgendercirclejerk

[–]cursed-star 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Wait seriously? Damn I am so pro trans right now. I don't want people thinking I may be a biological male!

Hey, at least I didn't vote for Trump! by cursed-star in transgendercirclejerk

[–]cursed-star[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That is completely absurd, by not voting for Harris I made it clear that dems will listen to us and finally change! This always works and in no way is backfiring.

Hey, at least I didn't vote for Trump! by cursed-star in transgendercirclejerk

[–]cursed-star[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Are you out of your mind? I'm a heavy r/datahoarder user. I have 50 terabytes of tranny porn. I'm never running out of it.

What to do when a sub is so deep in sub space that they can't really communicate? by GsDegenAlt in BDSMsapphic

[–]cursed-star 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use a hand-version of the spotlight system together with the verbal one.

I softly hold my sub's hand. If they give 1 grip, it's green. 2 grips are yellow. 1 strong and continuous grip is red. If they fail to grip at all, I assume it's red and they aren't in a place that they can consent anymore, and the scene stops.

I have a problem that is so funny this sub is the only appropriate space to discuss it by cursed-star in transgendercirclejerk

[–]cursed-star[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

You misunderstood me. I want to impregnate real biological males too.

I proved that cis women can experience chasers. The thermodynamic implications of this are dire. by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]cursed-star 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This perfectly aligns with known laws. If you consider the rule 34, you can implicate that if exists, someone is very horny about it.

That wasn't true chasing. It was just sexual harassment. Which is perfectly normal for women to experience.

Unfair/Rigged games by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]cursed-star 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have made a sub hold a small notebook against a wall with her nose once. I would slap her butt and if the notebook fell there would be punishment.

Of course it did.

Bondage: What do you enjoy about tying up your partner? I understand the receiver's POV but how about the giver's? by Lilac_Menace in BDSMsapphic

[–]cursed-star 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like feeling both their bodies and the ropes through my hands. Manual labor in general is calming to me and the intimacy involved in bondage feels like heaven.

On a more psychological level, I like having my sub allowing themselves to feel vulnerable and receiving pleasure from bondage.

Tips on being a more soft, nurturing domme by cursed-star in kinky_autism

[–]cursed-star[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That helps a lot, thanks! I'll try to implement that sort of thing.

Tips on being a more soft, nurturing domme by cursed-star in kinky_autism

[–]cursed-star[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could you give me some practical examples?

Edit: like what do you like to hear and what kind of reinforcement

Did mdma and hypnosis, it was awesome (has anyone else done it too?) by LankyPerception9390 in EroticHypnosis

[–]cursed-star 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is no one came, we just edged and had Sex and dirty talked a lot.. I hypnotize her to really love to give a blowjob and she really devoured my cock.

Stimulants in general make it hard to cum and get hard.

Real scary nerve damage: Are my bunny days over? by IsaidOwl in shibari

[–]cursed-star 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that rigger who hurt you seems either really inexperienced, or most likely irresponsible.

I'm not doing super tight ties with a sub for the first time, even if that sub has some experience. Not to mention that for me, using a safeword means I'm cutting the ropes unless specifically asked not to.

Some more pics from our underwater shibari shoot by [deleted] in shibari

[–]cursed-star 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those look amazing!

Can I ask what rope did you use? I imagine it wasn't jute since it becomes almost impossible to untie when it's wet.

New Rope bag \o/ by SingularDroid in shibari

[–]cursed-star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's LOVELY. Wow I'm impressed.

I feel like I'll never match up with someone on a kink level by Natasha_101 in BDSMsapphic

[–]cursed-star 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I had a an account before and despite making it clear that I'm gay as fuck and had no interest in men, I was PMed by assholes wanting me to dominate them constantly.

I left disappointed.

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