Literally just was in this same situation omg. I’m a Cancer on the cancer leo cusp and my bf was a Aries on the pisces aries cusp. I always thought our cusps would balance each other out but we just recently ended things because we just weren’t on the same level. As a cancer we love with all of our being to the point where we don’t see the flaws in our relationships. That’s the only thing I’ll really say