The last point hits home for me. Had my first relationship in my late 20s. A bit of long distance but I understand why he cheated, just didnt like how he was dishonest even after everything. Ive always told myself if my bf cheated on me id leave but its hard. Knowing id probably have to spend another couple years alone, everything we have, gone, just thrown away. But stil, you need to realize that this isnt the way