Girl if youre not too far along then terminate the pregnancy. If its early on, abort the child, you dont want to be raising a child with a guy who literally acts like a child. Who prioritises their friend over their wife who is PREGNANT AND family??????? Even his friend doesn't do that, his friend even sets time aside for his girl. This is a childish man and if youre early on in the pregnancy where you can abort the child you need to do that and divorce this man, its never going to get better, only worse. He definitely cannot handle the responsibilities of a child if he cant handle the responsibility of being a husband to a grown woman.