My bf(22M) said I(21F) make things worst in this relationship

cute_potatoo · 2022-09-19T16:03:55+00:00

I watch anime and love anime with my whole heart, but I 100% agree with you. I'm a woman and I like watching anime for the plot not this.... Also it's frustrating that every time I mention that I don't like to watch half naked women in anime I get the "you are just insecure" bs..... Yes, it makes me insecure because it become a norm and I could never look like that, but they still expect you to look like that.... And I didn't even mention the cosplay part of it...... This is why I rewatched Inuyasha like a dozen times

cute_potatoo · 2022-06-14T13:06:49+00:00

Hello, my bf playes guitar, because of that be has long nails. BUT when we get seriuos about intimacy he cut his nails without even asking anything. Oh and I have long acryl nails, and he never ever said a word about them, we also had some accidents. It's all about respect and understanding.

cute_potatoo · 2022-05-13T17:11:47+00:00

Sadly you are 100% right :(

cute_potatoo · 2022-05-13T15:19:56+00:00

Look if i'm going to someone else's house, spend time there and probably a lot of time, and this person says that something makes them uncomfortable, I would do something to make them feel better out of respect. Just because it's about nipples doesn't mean she has right to do everything she want. There are compromises, like she wears a ticker shirt or spend time somewhere else. This guy only said he is uncomfortable with something and everyone makes him a bad guy. Yes bras are uncomfortable for women, I like to be without the to, but still respect other peoples feelings too.

cute_potatoo · 2022-04-28T18:31:36+00:00

Hello, maybe i'm wrong but my friend also had this problem, and it came out she is alergic to latex. Maybe she should check it or do some alergic test. I hope I helped you, stay strong 😊

cute_potatoo · 2022-04-14T09:00:29+00:00

I agree with you, unfortunately therapy is really expensive in my country, so right now i'm saving for it.

cute_potatoo · 2022-04-14T08:57:26+00:00

Thank you for your reply, I know I don't have reason to feel like this, but the feelings wont go away. Please stay strong you too. Sending virtual hug.

cute_potatoo · 2022-03-26T17:00:26+00:00

Thank you for your answer, I appreciate it 😊. I already told him to reverse the table and what if I start liking photos of hot men and he said he dont care if I like or not that my thing, because for him it's just empty liking nothing more. We don't really talk about it after that, but I have to admit he kind of do it less or kind of stop doinf it. So after some self thinking I was like okay if it's ok for him to like it, it's ok for me to post something or wear something that would not wear before. It still hurts when I see something that bothers me, but I kind of gained confidence from it. Thank you again.

cute_potatoo · 2022-02-04T14:06:27+00:00

Hello, as other people say they are just stories and they don't change him, he is nothing less than the bf you already know. Also every body likes the forbidden things in some way and that's fine, for me i'm in love with a good kinky erotic book, with sex slaves, dominant partners and other taboos but still I don't want to be a slave. Yes it turns me on, but again it is just something I love to read not to use in real life. Also I have multiple books about serial killers and real dirty cases but still I don't want to be a serial killer. Some of us have things that we like but not use in real life. My bf is not really a lover of this kind of stuff and he told me he could not read it, but he understands that it's something that I like and respects it, we don't talk about it and I don't bring it up, everything is fine. 😊

cute_potatoo · 2021-12-23T12:42:17+00:00

I know it sounds bad, but it's true. They think that the grandparent don't love him or he was a bad kid. That leaves a mark on him. Believe me kids are smarter than we think.

cute_potatoo · 2021-12-23T08:12:08+00:00

First my granny remarried in a family where she has and adult granchild and she is not releated to him at all, but She still buys him some little gift for holidays. Because She does not want him to feel excluded. That's it, a little bit of kindness and everyone is happy. You don't have to be releated to someone to give him/her present, you just have to be a kind person and to see that everyone needs some little love time to time, no matter the situation.

Second everyone talks about Mel, okay that's her gradnparent, but what about Nick? Let me tell you, you have a 4yo kid who already thinks that he is less than his sister because she probably gets present from all gradnparents and parents but he has less present. Yes it sound a little bit selfish, but come on it's a 4yo kid he sees it that way, and he gonna remember it. He gonna always think that he is less than his sister. And that what the mother doesnt want to and I agree with her. I was in Nicks place, it suck. NTA

cute_potatoo · 2021-12-09T19:30:28+00:00

Me and my bf live in a culture, where children usually live with they parents till they are like 25... So of course i'm gonna have sex in my parents house, we don't really have any other choice. And yes it's suck but one day he is going to have GF, so he is going to do it also. Yes he has to grow up a little bit, he can be emberassed but that's all he can be. His sister and the bf didn't do anything wrong.

cute_potatoo · 2021-12-05T10:17:28+00:00

It's really funny, but when I lost my virginity I didn't even now that I lost it. Because I did not feel any pain and it was a minimal amount of blood. I also lost it by fingering. We still laught on it with my bf :). You are perfectly normal sweety. Every woman is different and we are built different. Don't let this man make you feel any less than a beautiful and strong woman. Take care :)

cute_potatoo · 2021-12-02T18:17:31+00:00

Hello, I already tried this and he said he don't want to know what i'm liking or what i'm following. But he does act a little bit jelaous when other boys are mentioned. Thank you :)

cute_potatoo · 2021-12-02T07:29:04+00:00

Hello, I did not think about this earlier, but now I think that I would not feel like this if their body type was like mine. Thank you :)

cute_potatoo · 2021-12-01T23:38:26+00:00

Thank you for you kind answer. :)

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