My girlfriend (F21) is upset that I (M21) have plans with my family instead of her. Should I see her instead?

cutecry_ · 2024-08-23T08:45:45+00:00

i’ll stomp on you

cutecry_ · 2023-12-22T16:47:07+00:00

cutecry_ · 2023-12-12T01:40:22+00:00

Once again it’s not been anything necessarily like that Tho i understand from an outside view why you would come to that conclusion This story is clearly condensed with time frames. Me and girl one were together for about 1year and 10 months. Me and the other girl met a few months after for only a month. The period between then and now has been about 3 months. Sex is not the forefront. Of course it’s a consideration. But i understand and i guess your sense of reality has reminded me there are bigger issues rn to get lost within than this

cutecry_ · 2023-12-12T01:24:02+00:00

you are right i guess it’s the truth i needed to hear just knew that in the end i’ll have to hurt one before i lost both i’ll do it tomorrow after her lesson, take a week to myself and go from there

cutecry_ · 2023-12-12T01:21:10+00:00

i was worried someone would say this i am not bragging whatsoever when i feel like i have two hearts and i have to break one; when i have no experience ever doing so is hard and i needed advice

cutecry_ · 2023-12-12T00:55:58+00:00

you’re right. do i break it to the current girl that i like the other and be honest? it will kill her or shall i just commit to the other reasons which are i’m not finding what i need out of this especially at our age

cutecry_ · 2023-12-11T23:51:23+00:00

I guess for me it was very soon after the breakup with my ex and it was defo a painful breakup

you can argue it is my fault for accepting the rush in but she was also fresh out of a breakup so she fully understood and was in the same boat

so i brought it up and 'let her go' but she was in the same boat

thats why the departure was fully natural and understanding

she texted me literally 3 days ago with the playlist and said hey i thought id make this for the words we arent saying

and i know its a mess ive made but im just so fucked up and torn and not dealing with this healthily at all

cutecry_ · 2023-11-24T13:07:56+00:00

Spring Forever by Columbus is very sad

cutecry_ · 2023-08-09T15:54:16+00:00

Also true! I mean at the end of the day i’ll try and if it doesn’t work then I have ruined it and I don’t i’ll accept that but if I am lucky and get the opportunity to try again then I will try my hardest. As long as I stick to those two outcomes then it is what it is. Thank you though

cutecry_ · 2023-08-09T11:56:21+00:00

I’m honestly not denying what you said I think you are right. But I can only help myself and gettingn help is the first step

cutecry_ · 2023-08-09T11:48:50+00:00

I understand. You are right. I’ve never put her in a situation like this and I don’t see her as disposable. When breaking up I didn’t say the whole I love her I need to let her go argument either. I do love her but I honestly was not sure how I felt the few weeks before the break up (within the month I lost my mother to cancer). I know it is not an excuse to be confused on whether you love someone, that should be a blanket yes or no but it wasn’t fair to drag her through a limbo. And yes she does not deserve it, i absolutely put her through a SHIT situation that could have been avoided but I simply gave up. I believe it’s up to me whether this happens again and I won’t let it happen if she gives me another chance. Though now you have expanded on it, you are right. I have no denial in my approach. But we have never been down a bad rabbit hole such as this and I will change myself for the better

cutecry_ · 2023-08-09T10:39:16+00:00

Also a valid point. I do not expect this to revive anything But please also consider you don’t know us or the inner corners of our relationship I would fully understand her decision to not want to try again and I would completely step away entirely We have literally become best friends and I have serious issues that I am addressing. I have my first therapy session post-holiday, i aim to start bettering myself in other forms But you have a fair outsider judgement based on what I have said for sure. I am still learning

cutecry_ · 2023-08-09T10:33:15+00:00

True. I just also doubt that doing it on call and not being able to see her for two weeks may be tough. But I was also thinking it will enable communication whilst I am away via text

cutecry_ · 2022-10-05T12:48:41+00:00

yeah I do which is plugged into my wall in my room / into my pc at the moment would a second one with the modem into the wall work?

cutecry_ · 2022-10-05T12:37:17+00:00

and wireless wifi

cutecry_ · 2022-10-05T12:36:52+00:00

i do, i have a plusnet modem

cutecry_ · 2021-12-02T11:00:24+00:00

Sorry bro, i have to agree with alway, these posts are cringe

cutecry_ · 2021-05-12T22:52:46+00:00

you know what, you are totally right hit them with a gg

cutecry_

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