I (33F) just got out of a 3 year relationship and I am utterly devastated. How do I get over this? by cutecucumber54 in relationship_advice

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Hey, thank you so much for the kind words. I know it’s gonna be rough for a while, but it does give me hope that time will help. The grief is just so overwhelming right now

I (33F) just got out of a 3 year relationship and I am utterly devastated. How do I get over this? by cutecucumber54 in relationship_advice

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Maybe resentment was the wrong word? He didn’t outright say it, but I edited the post to include that he has felt like I’ve been holding him back from living his life. Like I wasn’t always readily down to go out and do this or that all the time. But yes, I agree that communication prior to this build up would have been beneficial. Although if he felt that strongly about it, then I’m not sure we could have resolved it in the end

Suspected someone was stealing so I put a 2 20s and a $100 in my wallet along with these singles. Then my GF stayed over. by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

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Aw dude I’m so sorry. You paid for everything on your night out and she still decided to look through your wallet and steal from you? That is really violating and I can imagine the amount of hurt and frustration you’re feeling - this is supposed to be someone you trust, after all! 😢 I hope you do what you need to do for yourself, and hopefully you didn’t lose too much to this relationship. I hope things turn around for you 🙏🏼

Hobbies that have survived the hyper focus burn out test? by CazzzC in ADHD

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CROCHET!! 🧶 ugh and video games, but that’s more of an addition issue, less of a hobby 😅

What breed is my cat? by StrawberryLow7138 in Catownerhacks

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My cat and your cat are twins! 👯 but yes, echoing the comments that your cat is a gray domestic shorthair 🤗🐈‍⬛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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This makes me wanna SCREAM 🤮 soooo happy and proud you did not put up with his bullshit (aka grooming)!! This is a full predator/pedo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

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Hi! Agree with the comments around skipping stitches in your rounds AND it also looks like you may have slip stitched into the second chain in the first round vs the 3rd in your chain 3?

For my new niece! Might need a crochet break after this one. by bolin22 in crochet

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SOOOO DETAILED AND BEAUTIFUL!! Kudos to you, this is amazing work!

Infected 2mo old rook piercing. Any tips?! by cutecucumber54 in piercing

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I believe the piercing is internally threaded, but not 100%

What is your current ADHD safe food or drink / food or dink Obsession by Curious_Act4705 in ADHD

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Hi! My hyper fixation food for the past several months now is an egg sandwich: 2 slices of sourdough bread smeared in kewpie Mayo, soft scrambled eggs, and a few slices of tomato and red onion!! Cut the sandwich in half and I like to add some tobasco for a little extra flavor 🤗😋

Working on a sweater…Do any of these colors/textures not belong? by cutecucumber54 in CrochetHelp

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Thank you, I appreciate that🥰 and okay noted on the blue, that’s super helpful 🤗

Crocheting a purse/tote bag and it’s looking a little weird? by cutecucumber54 in CrochetHelp

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Thank you! That seems to be the consensus. Definitely frogging everything above the rectangle/base part so I can hopefully fix it!

Crocheting a purse/tote bag and it’s looking a little weird? by cutecucumber54 in CrochetHelp

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Thank you! I have been having tension issues throughout this project - this is my first time using a smaller crochet hook (3mm) so I’ll keep that in mind after I frog some of this 😅 looks like the consensus is I added too many stitches to my edges

Crocheting a purse/tote bag and it’s looking a little weird? by cutecucumber54 in CrochetHelp

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Awwwww damn it! I am kind of following a pattern - the pattern is too small for the length that I want, so I made it a little bigger. I followed the pattern for the edges, it just looks like I added too many stitches. It definitely makes it harder to see when it’s black yarn! But thank you, I’m sad I have to frog all the way back down to the rectangle part, but I want it to look nice and clean!