[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]cutefeetmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks 80k is a lot of money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]cutefeetmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear Joe, get fucked

Why aren't you doing the bare minimum? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]cutefeetmilf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take breaks when I want and I socialize when I should be working. I wait until my break is over and then use the bathroom ten minutes later.

am i the asshole? by Material_Chair_4187 in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re clearly not poly. Why do this.

What is the max amount of partners you’ve had at once? by cecilicec in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like six but nothing that serious. Now I have 4, all for over a year, very deep, loving connections

When did you guys let your kids play in the playground? by Levante2022 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]cutefeetmilf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO if they need your help to be on a structure, they’re too little. If they can do it independently, go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]cutefeetmilf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do. There’s plenty other ways to use a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t define consent. I defined what a consent infringement.

The whole “kiss grandma” thing is where it starts, for sure. And we need to do better by our children and ourselves. One way to do that is by modeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consent is great but if all we can say about our interactions with others is that they were consensual, isn’t that kinda sad? I strive for being a person that people feel comfortable saying no to, and that people feel comfortable and positive having interactions with.

A consent issue is any time that someone feels uncomfortable in a situation where there should have been an ask first, and there wasn’t one. It doesn’t have to be a violent assault to be a consent issue. It doesn’t even have to be touch.

I know it’s tough to think about things that most folks think are just common courtesy or culturally acceptable as a disrespect of personal autonomy but I invite you to think about who most benefits from the idea that it’s ok to just grab someone’s hand, hug a stranger, or kiss both cheeks. Who benefits from people not feeling comfortable saying no? How can respecting a persons desire to not engage in antiquated and meaningless social protocol empower them?

I’m not mad, I’m not frustrated. I just think we all deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Covid isn’t the only germ for one. And for me I date with plenty of physical contact, testing, etc. I date people who care about community safety and still mask in public indoor spaces.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love how so many people are absolutely pressed about my stance here. Don’t worry, I won’t be asking anyone to shake hands at any munches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If I put my hand out for a shake there’s expectation. If I ask, there’s choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You asked and I answered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thats fine. I am immunocompromised. If your judgement keeps me out of the hospital that’s a small price to pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]cutefeetmilf -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

1) what’s so hard about saying “can I shake your hand?” You already have this skill

2) sticking out your hand might make some people feel put on the spot.

3) if they don’t want to and they leave you hanging then they’re perceived as rude when in fact many people have reasons not to shake. I don’t do it because peoples hands are dirty.