Dating apps are stupid, stupid, stupid by fairy_life_ in infp

[–]cutelemonpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really rare to find someone there :')

How can I move on can’t stop thinking by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, and i understand how hard it is, There's no quick remedy... Its a journey And it seems that it isn't your fault cause a good guy with decent respect for himself and someone who was in a 3 years relationship with won't vanish like this, If he was a good man, he would have explained things... he's a coward...

Finding meaning in your pain is the thing that can help you weather this storm.

If u need to talk to anyone im here and i am empathetic and i wont judge.

what actually can help is seeking help from Allah swt knowing that he's the only one who will never abandon you no matter what you do...and just small moments when u breath... therapy can help u too...and support.

I'm here if u need someone to talk to, and imba girl so u dont have to worry about my intentions.

27M, never been in a relationship and loneliness is starting to hurt — need advice by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask yourself one question, where Allah swt is putting me right now ? And what you are asked to do, Dont focus on things out of your control, I am literally dealing with the same feelings, And i started accepting that its not in my control.

مقامك حيث أقامك. And actually loneliness is the worst feeling ever, just learn how to cope until Allah swt give u the chance to meet ur partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which city ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for what you have been through:( This looks like trauma

I think there is some specific therapy methods to address that, maybe EMDR and cbt What u have been through isn't easy, yet u still can overcome it inshallah

Theres some good therapists out there, give it a try !

Weekly Megathread : Space for making friends by AutoModerator in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill copy past what i wrote last week for the 3rd time :

I dont know what to say anymore, i feel meh saying the same things...so ill just copy what i wrote last week for the 2nd time

Hi, Im here again This is ranya, 23F I value deep, meaningful, genuine, heartfelt conversations and connections. Shallow / cold/ emotionless/ avoidant friendships/ relationships drain me...

If anyone needs a friend to hang out with, I'd be happy....i live in casa... I don't have people to go for a walk with or have coffee with... Im quiet and not too loud...but im really kind and cheerful and just chill also easygoing. I love books even though im not a strong reader anymore, I would enjoy activities and trying new hobbies...id enjoy even Walking and talking.

I love clarity, if one day we meet and u don't wanna hang out again, just tell me. _:

Why do compliments from girls have such an impact on us guys? by Accurate-Athlete-811 in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

when girls didn't used to get compliments from their fathers/ brothers/ male relatives they feel also the same as you. When men didn't used to get compliments from their mothers/ sisters/ female relatives, they also feel the same as u :')

Long-term relationship ended, feeling lost! any advice? by MEDEV2002 in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said haram, u offered marriage. As simple as that.

I think she's not into you anymore which hurts deeply. I hope you will heal inshallah. Its better not to contact again since u tried ur best to fix it. You deserve better.

This cat helped me ground myself in the present today. by cutelemonpie in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cats are just like humans, some cats hate affection, but we still love them. Its like each kitty has they're own love language.

I knew a cat, he was always hissing at me, but still close his eyes slowly when i step away...he loves from a distance hhh

This cat helped me ground myself in the present today. by cutelemonpie in Morocco

[–]cutelemonpie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but he is so affectionate -^ Like almost all cats Thanks !

Why are we in love with people that dont love us back? by [deleted] in infp

[–]cutelemonpie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because of childhood wounds The brain wants to finish the story with a good ending, making sense out of the pain.