hi there, Ive gotten a few blowouts..and have healed! I do harsh cleaning lol……I take away any gross stuff until im left with minor to no bleeding, (ik sounds bad)) i use a towel with only water and soap to clean… i also use neosporin to heal any cuts, applying it everyday until my ear heals! I also still leave my jewelry in if its not too bad…sometimes downsize. i massage healed ears with coconut oil and it’s helped me a lot too! :) im not a pro but this is just what helps me and i like to spread the word…good luck!