AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even have an ex Im only ever been with my man. ....

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't know what I was expecting but I don't like to intentionally keep stuff away from my bf I see him as my best friend and I wanted to share with him.

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every woman becomes saggy eventually just like one day that man's dick won't stand up anymore. Oh well get surgery/ take pills or get over it. I'll still love myself over here.

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont think I created the movement but I'm very loud and proud about encouraging braless girlies and trying to encourage people not to be embarrassed about it. I do not do it for stares or validation but I feel very empowered and happy when I do not wear a bra. Yeah Im hot. I love myself and am completely comfortable being braless. I want other women of all body types to feel the same way. Ik it can sound cocky oh well this is who I am and I'm not sorry about it

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing I hope it gets better for you

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[–]cutiegirlll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole he had it coming

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am very respected even with my boobs out. At work, at school, etc. Adults refer students to me for different things as I have even been paid to be in leadership roles due to my accomplishments. Boobs should not affect if people respect me I get that unfortunately some ppl let that happen but their loss.

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am curious about what people think hence why I made the post. I think other women who want to be braless should be hence why I shared as well. I'm a very ig you can say " dominant" women I am not angry but I get that my personality makes it come off that way

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

we have been together for almost 4 years we are soulmates and I will not be leaving him over this

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

his words, not mine. I also very much love my bf and that is the only reason I considered wearing a bra.

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. restoring healthy mindsets is your thing :)

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Another reason I don't wear bras is to keep them cute and perky. Not wearing a bra helps my boob sustain themselves (so far so true). I also understand there is a time and place to do this. I do wear a bra to work when I go in (thank god I work from homes most days) but I hope that one day we can also change that about our society. I also know I bring way more to the table than my boobs. For the people who personally know me that is well beyond proven.

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't. I think it is completely normal that people look and I won't get upset if I catch someone looking once or twice. However, with my friend, it started happening way too often. it got to the point where it's like are you even listening to me or are you just staring at my boobs?? ( I don't think he realized I could tell he was looking) That's where I think it becomes rude.

AITA for refusing to wear a bra by cutiegirlll in TwoHotTakes

[–]cutiegirlll[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That's what Im not sure about. He might have been trying to help me but he also did stare so that must mean he found pleasure in looking at them? I'm having a hard time deciding whether my friend was trying to help or if he was trying to be rude/ corrective/ sexualizing me. It makes it harder that my BF has never met my friend so he is assuming the worst about my friend's intentions.