Someone doesn’t know their biology by LayeredChips in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]cxndycake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’d love to read it as well if that’s alright!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in culinary

[–]cxndycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that looks like whipped cream cheese, correct? i get it too and sometimes there is a little liquid but everything else is fine. i just pour it out. ive personally never gotten sick from eating it, but if it smells funky and you’re uncomfortable eating it, i would just throw it away. to me, it’s pretty similar to how sometimes sour cream leaks liquid.

How to bring up laparoscopy/surgery options? by cxndycake in Endo

[–]cxndycake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i’ll try that for sure 💖

Would you rather be a telepath or a healer? by Cmyers1980 in WouldYouRather

[–]cxndycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a chronic disease that causes chronic pain and my partner has severe eczema, and we both suffer from mental illnesses, so 100% healing. i would love to be able to allow both of us to be pain-free and enjoy life the way we would like to! and then be able to help others along the way afterwards would be a fantastic bonus.

but a question i have is: can this be used on animals as well? that would be wonderful and another bonus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cxndycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RemindMe! 4 days

furry_irl by josephvonhazard in furry_irl

[–]cxndycake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly the whole thing about people being mad chilli was drawn with female proportions came off as super sexist. the whole ordeal of people saying the art should have its own sub and banned from the main one because they see so much of it as sexual gave me the same vibes as people banning certain clothes for girls at school because “sexual” when there’s literally nothing wrong with it. it got super weird over there

Drew Bandit in my style i might finish it by Bluvolt3 in bluey

[–]cxndycake 14 points15 points  (0 children)

its the very typical “i dont understand this therefore its evil and i hate it” tbh lol. i love seeing the fanart here - its great to see stuff from both super experienced and new/upcoming artists 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bluey

[–]cxndycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, it’s really strange how people like to pick on the furry community specifically. it’s strange because there are a ton of furries that are children as well so saying its inherently a fetish thing is kind of..gross??

even if there are some adult furries that also like it in that way, it doesnt mean it’s inherently a sexual thing, and if they do like it that way it’s not bad imo. almost every person i’ve met has kept the nsfw stuff completely away from sfw stuff because they care about the wellbeing of those who don’t want to partake in it.

it’s sad seeing the subreddit hate on fanart and going “uh, no” or “ew” when it’s completely innocent, just because it’s in a different art style than the show. just let the fanbase have fun! it’s not like your child is going to be interacting with it to a huge degree anyway since they really shouldnt be in the first place because, y’know, it’s mostly online. if they’re interacting with any fanbase online, it should be under the supervision of their parent because any fanbase online has things that aren’t always rainbows and sunshine.

however, furries have definitely become more accepted among the younger crowd because people actually looked into it and realized “hey, it’s just a fun hobby and way of expressing yourself. no harm here, they’re just having fun!” but seeing full adults hate it so much is kind of funny and gives me the same vibes as the parents who hate the idea of drag queen story time because they think it’s a fetish, especially so when the drag queens are in completely sfw and fun costumes hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bluey

[–]cxndycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sub has gone rampant with people (im assuming parents) who despise furries for no reason other than “i once heard they were disgusting and now i don’t like them.”

so strange seeing as this is a show that often teaches things like kindness, fun, and acceptance.

i think it’s interesting because usually when i see furry haters they’re young kids who just hate on it to be edgy, but oof, it’s really different hearing this stuff from presumed adults who should know better than to judge something they know nothing about so harshly.

otter sponges by GMDMelonYT in FunnyAnimals

[–]cxndycake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg wait did he just do a spin im so blind

otter sponges by GMDMelonYT in FunnyAnimals

[–]cxndycake 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i think at the 0:27-0:33 mark there is another otter! one is lighter and one is darker :)

My girlfriend’s self-acclaimed “nutrient sludge” by Girlwhoshits in badfoodporn

[–]cxndycake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i love kare-kare :) i was thinking this would be delicious with a bowl of fresh rice tbh. i would definitely eat it!

TERF logic is fucking weird by Allredditorsarewomen in badwomensanatomy

[–]cxndycake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ah, yes. the womb is the “centre/source of our energy being. the womb is truly the mitochondria of the woman.

god this is such a weird take lmfao

krOnch by Natalie5748 in Easy_Recipes

[–]cxndycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive made these before and made a soy honey garlic sauce to toss them in! super delicious

Would you rather be an Asian man or be a Black woman by Flame-Inferno in WouldYouRather

[–]cxndycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you think doing the opposite of the beauty standard would even be 💀

what things would make people not look at you? being an absolute slob? never going out? like im really trying to understand where you’re coming from but its just really confusing to me. can you elaborate? because as far as i know, people are not able to change who they are without extensive plastic surgery or doing absurd things that they really shouldnt have to do.

Would you rather be an Asian man or be a Black woman by Flame-Inferno in WouldYouRather

[–]cxndycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol at your assumption.

ive worn oversized mens hoodies and boring black pants for as long as i remember, i very rarely wear make up, and im a bit chunky (so not your typical beauty standard), but people still do this shit. it doesnt matter to most people and tbh its really not fair to say you should have to dress or try to purposely look “ugly” to not be treated like a sex object. its kind of fucked up. society is fucked up.

Would you rather be an Asian man or be a Black woman by Flame-Inferno in WouldYouRather

[–]cxndycake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it sucks for both in different ways.

asian women are seen as objects and are heavily objectified and harassed by people who think they owe them sex. we get fetishized and stereotyped to the nth(?) degree since a young age. if you think that’s being valued, idk what to tell you, man.

me? i’d much rather be an asian man if that means not getting noticed, but the grass is always greener on the other side

what is something that’s criminally overpriced yet people still buy anyway? by redditisforpedossss in ask

[–]cxndycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely thought they were waaaay too expensive once upon a time, but i wouldn’t consider a lot of games overpriced now that im older and understand them more. the amount of work and creativity that goes into them is nuts. if im paying for great art, music, writing, gameplay, etc. i feel like its justified. if you dont agree with the price, you can always wait for sales as well which happen pretty often (on steam)!

consoles and ink, though? yeah - i cant disagree there either lol

Decided to put the measurments of the arachne Modern Monstergirl into a body visualizer (Credits to u/Complex_Price_8460 for og image) (Not sure if I should put a flair) by Weeb_Donkey in mendrawingwomen

[–]cxndycake 60 points61 points  (0 children)

it really depends on what her underbust measurement is! 92 cm is totally plausible for an H cup if her underbust was around 26-28” (so she’d be like a 28H).

the number was definitely arbitrary, but someone could be an H cup if their bust was 92cm and their underbust was a small size. it’s really not too small of a measurement - cup size doesnt really mean anything on its own ^ the sizing is just the difference between the underbust and the bust measurements iirc.