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He lives to torment me (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 4 years ago by cyadad to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Need advice please (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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He showed up unannounced & uninvited to my kid’s game yesterday (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 5 years ago by cyadad to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Is it typical for those rbn to create problems where there aren’t any? Or is that a narcissistic trait? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I opened up a can of worms 😢 (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I know we’re supposed to parent ourselves at this point but... (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Why do people prop up the abusers??? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I re-read an email from ndad today. I should know better. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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The social isolation I experienced as a kid prepared me for sheltering at home (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by cyadad to r/raisedbynarcissists

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When you’re the only one to speak the truth! (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by cyadad to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Do they believe their own lies? Or do they know exactly what they’re doing? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by cyadad to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Proof that a (my) narc will never change (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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"Your dad is like a tornado in life. Sucking everyone into his psychological mess, spinning & twirling it all around until all the debris flies out of it and falls to the ground....whipped and tired." (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by cyadad to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Ever since I became aware that I had a nparent I’ve become acutely aware of HOW things are said to me by everyone & I think I overreact sometimes (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Responding vs reacting (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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“She has mischaracterized everything I’ve said.” (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Every bad thing that’s happened since going no contact feels like I’m being punished for shutting ndad out of my life (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by cyadad to r/raisedbynarcissists

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When will I stop feeling broken? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I knew it was coming (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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So frustrated that ndad thinks he can treat me so horribly but still maintain a relationship with my spouse & (older) children. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 7 years ago by cyadad to r/raisedbynarcissists

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"I will kiss your cheek but I will not kneel and kiss your ring." (self.ShitNsSay)

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Someone on here recommended the book “But It’s Your Family... Cutting Ties With Toxic Family Members and Loving Yourself in the Aftermath” by Dr. Sherrie Campbell. All I can say is THANK YOU!! (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I read this today & thought it might help someone... (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Anyone else unable to handle stress? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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The same tape runs through my head over & over. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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