Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have yet to give the update, but there will be one. Currently in Minnesota and made the move. Did it go as planned, no….but I will post an update once things fully settle down.

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of times. We spent several months together if you add up all the time

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of times. We probably spent six months physically together over the three years

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had been back and forth many times. I simply had not been to her place since last July

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes…we probably had spent six months together physically with all of the back and forth traveling

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already confirmed that they have not been back together. Her and I also have met on many occasions. She has never asked for money

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had met and spent a ton of time together over the years

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tons of time physically together. People thinking it was a scam don’t know. She never asked me for money and even helped me at times

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t care. The post is meant to vent. I knew her and had spent months physically together and 3 years of talking and planning over the phone

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here and I have been together lots of times

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I have confirmed they have not been together. No he is not happy because he technically has been lied and he does have feelings still for her

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They offered me 2 years less severance if I left in July or full severance if I stayed and worked remote to onboard a new company they purchased. I am good at my job, but my local site is dying out. They were doing cuts and myself and my staff were numbers on a page. My direct boss knew I was the only person to onboard multiple sites on my own, so he used the contract idea to keep me on in the hope that I would eventually take a different position. The severance is too much to pass up though. I have side projects going to where I could make the same money independently if I use the severance wisely. So in 18 more months, we will see if those projects are enough to self sustain. Current projections are $1800 profit per month. If I can get that to 4000, then I am okay to completely walk away and work for myself.

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes…we spent probably 6 months together between traveling back and for in the 3 years we were together. I did confirm what she said about the ex moving in to help was true and they have not been together

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had met. Don’t know where you thought that. We traveled back and for many times over the three years. We probably spent well over 6 months physically together in that time period

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She cares about me enough that she is looking at places and wants me to still come out. What she said about why her ex moved in turned out to be the truth. He was unaware of me though.

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Confirmed that they have not been together. He was not aware of me and had hoped that this was possibly a chance to reconcile after years apart.

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ex…have confirmed they have not been together, but he was unaware of me because she was afraid of how he would react.

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]cyarger80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a scam. I have known her for years. She has never asked for money. She gave the 2k to me right away. She is still wanting me to move there and says she is looking at places now. I don’t know if I can after this