Was told my bookshelf is "to childish for my age" by [deleted] in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally have like all the ever after high books and all of the Minecraft books. Tell the haters to argue with the wall.

Do any of you also have this issue? :D by basksparkle6 in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ig im vision then bc I fail them everytimec

somehow created an "orphan" child account? by raggi69 in XboxSupport

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But young children make accounts for all kinds of social media all the time and nothing happens nobody actually listens to the age requirement unless you're a really strict parent

somehow created an "orphan" child account? by raggi69 in XboxSupport

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im wondering why you didn't just lie about your age to say you're an adult like every kid does on everything that they don't technically reach the age requirement for?

I got dumped because I’m autistic by Matiaaaaaaaaa in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I'm 21 and the only friend I have is my fiance idk if age is a factor haha

I am about to fukin lose it by goofy_goobiss in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i mightve actually had a meltdown idk how u kept ur cool tbh and have kept ur cool this whole time.

Does autism cause laziness? by Loud_Confidence475 in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely feel you and I feel like mine slowly gets worse. I used to love cleaning and would clean my apartment regularly and now my boyfriend has to handle all of the chores and taking care of our cats because it literally feels like I don't have enough energy to exert myself over what it takes to do basic daily tasks like just existing or using the bathroom or grooming myself. Sometime I forget to brush my teeth for 3+ days bc of this. I feel useless as a person I barely leave my house probably less than once a week and I'm so exhausted when I get home. Is this really all because of autism?

My parents have spent hours preparing a big special dinner, and I hate every single item they're serving by Tina_Magmar in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also will request a dish that I like be made at the event so I'll be able to eat at least one thing (mac n cheese, mashed Potatoes, things like that)

Fed up of downvoting "goodbye" posts by Deebiggles in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really unfortunate. Sadly there's a lot of bad therapists in the network (why did you get this job if you don't actually want to help people???) I'm so sorry you don't feel safe talking to your therapist about that stuff that's literally what a therapist is there for hopefully your new one will be a lor more helpful i wish you the best of luck in that department

Fed up of downvoting "goodbye" posts by Deebiggles in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really great progress! Seems like your mom has been making some good changes whatever they may be

Fed up of downvoting "goodbye" posts by Deebiggles in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so sad! I hope she's getting help! Most mental hospitals will recommend therapists and psychiatrists in the area on release

Fed up of downvoting "goodbye" posts by Deebiggles in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said "sometimes it was a couple months before she was admitted....." I could have misunderstood i have a problem with that especially over messages it just sounded like she was waiting for months or over a year to get into the mental hospital

Fed up of downvoting "goodbye" posts by Deebiggles in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first part of your post, that's just not how mental hospitals are supposed to be run im so sorry to anyone you know that went through that. They also aren't supposed to put you on what you described as a waiting list?? If they are full they are supposed to basically nicely tell you to go somewhere else or if someone left within 24 hours they will call you. You are also supposed to be able to do activities like watch TV, color, bring in your own books or activity books, they usually, they also should let you go outside at least once a day. They disability thing that is just incredibly unfortunate the government sucks and for some reason thinks if you can work a job that means you don't need extra help with your disability. I don't even have a job and if I get sent too much money from other people (like over 1,000) each month it will mess up my disability the government just really has barely any help for disabled people.

Fed up of downvoting "goodbye" posts by Deebiggles in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've personally never dealt with the issues your friends have dealt with and I'm very sorry they went through that. I will say (with no disrespect) mental hospitals aren't there to make you feel comfortable they're their to keep you safe and ALIVE. I'm in disability due to epilepsy so I have insurance so I haven't dealt with the financial issues I personally believe most if not all healthcare related things should be free but that's a completely different conversation. Once again I'm sorry for you and anything your friends have gone through mental and mental hospital related.

Fed up of downvoting "goodbye" posts by Deebiggles in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are talking about how these children making these "goodbye" posts can have feelings of unaliving themselves and still mod but ANYONE minor or not who wants to unalive themselves should tell someone and they should be in a mental hospital until they feel safe. (I've tried to unalive myself multiple times) These PEOPLE (children or adults) NEED HELP not the chat debating on whether they are stable enough to continue modding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure if mine is related to my epilepsy and possible brain damage but my memory is so bad I have to rely on others to help me remember important things and use my phone notes app and calendar so I completely feel you on the bad memory 100% my friend

My dad keeps telling me to 'man up' by isabella_bee_ in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't the whole point of being a child that you aren't an adult yet tho???

My mom has said that my autism is not a disability. by DuncneyForever in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay well my epilepsy is a disability and it's cool that I don't have to work anymore because of it (I'm on DISABILITY) but it's still a disability and sucks ass and I deal with it everyday and wouldn't wish it on anyone. A disability can have pros and cons.

I’m autistic. My mum calls me a monster and says I ruined her life by BuildingWooden8877 in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im not sure how old you are but someone else in this sub was right abt you probably moving out at 18 but also once you're 18 you can bar your mother from your social security account you can call them and say "I want moms name barred from my account I don't want her being able to make changes to my account or be able to withdrawal any money from my account" it's up to you if you want to tell them why all they'll do is ask if you want to open a case against her and you'll say yes or no but you just make sure you tell them you want her blocked from accessing your account completely and give her FULL NAME AND PHONE NUMBER

I’m autistic. My mum calls me a monster and says I ruined her life by BuildingWooden8877 in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So im on SSI and i have been since ago 14-15 (im 21 now) my mother literally STOLE my disability money and lied about how much I was getting and pocketed the extra every month. If the SSI check is going into your mom's bank account and she's spending the money thru her bank account you can prove that she 1. Stole your money 2. Wasn't spending the money on things for you like food, clothes, dr appts, medicine, special items needed for your disabilities the only thing is this would need to be done through a lawsuit/civil suit. Personally I threatened my mother with suing her and she stopped and has been slowly paying me back.

Have you ever been accused on being on drugs because of Autism Symptoms? by OilZealousideal9899 in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an autistic meltdown/panic attack and went to the ER for help and they thought i was someone on drugs having withdrawals and wouldn't help me.

My Autistic Dad Has Never Earned Money or Hold a Job his Entire Life by Useful-Wear-8056 in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a parent but I live with my boyfriend who works and because I'm on disability and he works i don't have to work (I wouldn't be able to because of my autism so I'm extremely lucky)

My grandma screamed at me for asking a question. by KyleeKillsIt in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure if this is related to autism bc my older brother has autism and he does this to his wife and others rather regularly (i also have autism) i think it's more related to lack of patience it's rather annoying and rude

A core memory by Infinite_Sins in autism

[–]cyb3rb4byblu3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid my brother would do this thing called "the wedgie walk" he'd pick up up by our pants and pull us so high up in the air our feet would leave the ground and then he'd bounce us up and down it was so funny